Courage or Slut?

[gravito]

Okay, I realize a few of you aren't going to like the subject, but after my last update, I figure I need something to grab your attention. I'm a tad bit confused as to why girls sometimes start conversations with me when I'm at the bar playing pool or whatever.

So I was a tad bit drunk.

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Re: Watch out dear here it comes!!!

[queen_phoenix]

I really have to agree with most of this posting...Most women do try to change men...I look for one that is the one I want but I have heard women...I will change that, I will "train" him...That is what kills me! I trained him that way..I truthfully have never understood women myself...If you haven't figured it out I have no female friends...they are all males and we get along great...Don't actively seek out..It is when you are least looking she will come your way but don't close down completely or you will miss out when she comes your way..

I can also understand your point on never getting married because of you wanting her to think that you will leave at anytime...I really have to agree with you on that point too.

Your older female friend is right someone will be a lucky girl and you will find the right one one day...Not the romance novel type no...Those type are frilly froo froo girls who believe in a world that is not real...Things are not that way and it is usually those women who try to do the "training" of their men.

She'll come your way...just make sure and be receptive and for gosh sakes do not look in bars...Unless you want a one-nighter...I have a sister like that and she is completely happy like that...Don't understand it and it makes me sick...

Did I ever tell you after looking at my post you need to use more ellipses? :)

[gravito]

lol. No. I do *not* need to use more ellipses. I know people that do though, and it doesn't bother me. It defines who it is that is typing. A lot of times I can tell who is trying to hide from me based on the way they type. Whereas when I imiate someone, I do a great job of it.

I don't look for women in bars. Not generally, anyway. I'll meet them there though.

I don't mind someone attempting to change me. But if they say, "change or I'll leave you" I'll say, "leave me". Doesn't matter how long she's been with me and how much she thinks I love her, if she's asking me to quit something that I did before I met her and she never said anything about it, then she's crazy.

I would not make vows with someone whose life I wasn't happy with when I made them.

[queen_phoenix]

Good healthy outlook...You will do well when you find the right one...I have hope for you!

[gravito]

edit: "made" should be "met"