So i'm lying on my stomach on the bed and benjamin is bringing me shots, applying hot compresses, and squeezing thick goo out of a cyst on my back.
I've had this tiny bump on my back for at least a year, in the back of my mind I thought it should be looked at but i've been without health insurance and it just didn't seem terribly important.  On ( Read more... )

So I’m moving in less than 2 weeks and benjamin’s coming into town on Thursday, we really want to see people, say our fond farewells and have drinks but we are also going to be quite busy with packing and cleaning and .

To make it easier for all, here are some places we will be that you could also be:

Christmas Eve: Drinks at Heart & Dagger ( Read more... )

Hello friends! I haven't been the best about keeping this under wraps and instead of info leaking out like... there's nowhere pleasant that could go, scratch that simile, instead of slowly letting the cat out of the bag to certain people as I accidentally tell them, I am just dumping the cat out right here: I am moving to Champaign-Urbana, Illinois ( Read more... )

So I’ve been kinda crazy. Starting about two weeks ago I found myself getting a little moody; snippy, (more) easily upset by little things. I had chalked it up to delightful lady-mood swings, part of the natural and beautiful cycle we go through made a little worse by the terrible sleep I've been getting. Terrible sleeps, TERRIBLE. Sometimes I can’ ( Read more... )

I want to get a tattoo as  a commemoration (of sorts) of my time in California and my transition to what benchilada  and I are calling life 2.0.

I've always had the idea of a Kali tattoo in the 'ideas for tattoos' file because it's one of my middle names. She seems fitting for the idea of leaving California to be with benjamin as a rebirth of sorts. While I ( Read more... )