Most people would describe themselves as friendly, but what most people don't realize s that there are different types of friendliness
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I think there are definitely a few more types of cordiality than the ones you described above, including just being merely "cordial" with someone
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I think you pretty much nailed it with everything you said. True, there are many more types of friendliness than the ones I described. And you're absolutely right that my bias for certain types of friendliness is actually a bias for certain types of people. It's not so much that the people I like have to have an accent or use correct grammar. It's more that they all have in common the ability to put a new spin on old expressions. To illustrate, imagine a friend who curses a lot with their friends--nothing new. Now imagine someone who curses in 3 different languages--that's something you don't see every day. I would actually appreciate that someone was giving high fives if he were appreciating the awkwardness as you say, but only if giving high fives was just one aspect of his personality; if there was nothing else notable about them, then the high fives become a party trick. Similarly, I was wrong to say that all you need is a cool accent. You'd need something else too--a really warm smile, for instance, or the ability to
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found your journal by accident. Glad I did, though. You have some very important things to say. I was around during the days when livejournal first started--and it spelled the death of OpenDiary, which I was on. I went through the same thing you did--the sudden cropping-up of 'blog mania'. The hurt feelings, and the trouble, the staying away, then return--I can imagine how that must've been. I'm sorry that it was like that for you.
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