III, 4: Artful condolences
When Lao Tan died, Khin Shih went to condole (with his son), but after crying out three times, he came out. The disciples said to him, 'Were you not a friend of the Master?'
'I was,' he replied, and they said,
'Is it proper then to offer your condolences merely as you have done?'
He said,
'It is. At first I thought he was the
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