How does one navigate and negotiate sexual desires and boundaries? If you are mostly compatible with a guy but he is into certain things you don’t enjoy, how do you talk about it without offending him? Condoms are easy to discuss because the topic has become so mainstream and we grew up with it as part of the conversation. Safe sex, barebacking, ( Read more... )

"I hope you are okay with me being a total top," he said. "I don't want you to feel abused and used ( Read more... )

I had a particularly hot dream last night. I tracked down Vi. It was nighttime and the room was dark and we quickly got down to having sex. It was slow, powerful and passionate. Absent were the neuroses and self doubt about STD's, dirtiness, etc. although I am sure we used condoms. After a while he suggested he invite his friend for a threesome. ( Read more... )

In Hawaii, the man, kane, is seen as the embodiment of Kāne, the god of creation and giver of life. Men are seen as providers, responsible for hunting, cooking food, providing shelter. Da saved lives during the day and saved guys from a life without orgasms at night. He was ideal husband material ( Read more... )

Being immature. Staying up late chatting with cute boys. Just like my Sweet 16 party! Gotta wake up at 3:45am for a flight to Orange County, but I am sick of being a responsible adult. Just going to pretend for a while...

Fucking Je not returning my messages. I told him I wanted to cuddle. Boys make me mad.

I looked at an el map of Chicago. That city still feels like home to me, just like SF, maybe even more so. Chicago feels like home more than LA, despite the fact that I lived in LA twice as long as I lived in Chicago. Well, LA feels like home in a different way. ( Read more... )

The date with To was in some ways a perfect date. We planned to meet for a drink, but it was till early at 3pm and the bar was only offering shots. Instead we went to a coffee shop nearby where we sat and talked for an hour about work and where we are living. We found a mutual interest in Vegas, and decided to go see Hangover III. There were no ( Read more... )

Just realized it's Na's second week of being married, which means he is going home every night and having sex. That explains why he has been so quiet at work and leaving once 5pm strikes.

There are many hot guys in the world. The important thing is not to just look at them, but to find situations to interact with them.

I think I am realizing I am trying too hard to be someone I am not. Trying to meet guys. Life seems to come so effortlessly to people. I need to arrange my life so that I can live it just as effortlessly. I think a change of city would help, as would having a washer and dryer.