I think one of the problems with how you carry intrapersonal relationships if that if you don't approve of something it SEEPED into EVERYTHING you did. So like, even if you weren't asked your 2 cents on something, like, just the way you interacted with someone would express your disapproval.
Like, when I was still dating Ben, you made it VERY obvious that you disapproved of the relationship in the last few months (and like, me by extension because you kind of gave off the impression that all the relationship issues were my fault and Ben was the victim and the saint and whatnot), and it kind of got to me and made me hesistant to hang out with you.
And like, you never approached me about this and I got very paranoid and kept asking other people if you actually liked me. =/
I dunno.
Actually now that I think about what I just said, it really does not apply to your post at all. Sorry. Just needed to vent and tell you how I felt.
well...that is certainly true. I project a lot and am very easy to read >_>;; unless i'm like makign an effort to hide somethign, which im quite good at but dont do anymore because i feel like i shouldnt have to hide things? . You're also right about the end of you and Ben. But to be fair, I didnt disapprove of the relationship itself, just how it was playing out. Though, I'm sorry you felt that way. Maybe it was because I was talking to you, withotu like, ben present. Because I *certainly* did no think all relationship issues were your fault -- ben too >_< I really think it's a combination of the two people that make or break the relationship, and even if it was broken, that was certainly ben's fault as well. I think it may have come off the wrong way, because when I talk to soemone, usually there is a concentration on like..their faults, i suppose? because, the other person's faults are ofr secondary importance. It's not up to someone to fix someone else's faults. So I didnt really talk abotu ben's faults as much to you
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But if we were sane, we'd do less work and then oh noessss >_< Hmm, not a bad idea -- Susan used to do that freshamn year for me, but she got busyl. Iz coooolllll ~fallz over~
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Like, when I was still dating Ben, you made it VERY obvious that you disapproved of the relationship in the last few months (and like, me by extension because you kind of gave off the impression that all the relationship issues were my fault and Ben was the victim and the saint and whatnot), and it kind of got to me and made me hesistant to hang out with you.
And like, you never approached me about this and I got very paranoid and kept asking other people if you actually liked me. =/
I dunno.
Actually now that I think about what I just said, it really does not apply to your post at all. Sorry. Just needed to vent and tell you how I felt.
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Thank you ^^ ~glomp~ ...i trryyy~
But if we were sane, we'd do less work and then oh noessss >_<
Hmm, not a bad idea -- Susan used to do that freshamn year for me, but she got busyl. Iz coooolllll ~fallz over~
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