I totally get what you're saying because I feel the same. I mean there are moments where I actually think I must be somewhat smart but then I see other kids acing this and that and I feel...unworthy? It's sort of, like, oh, I'm not actually smart. And I think that's always been my downfall - comparing myself to others only to find myself "lacking" in everything. I feel like I should stop that. :(
...And now I've gone off-topic, lmao. But good luck bb! I know you can do it! ♥
that's always been my downfall - comparing myself to others only to find myself "lacking" in everything. yes, that's exactly it. Comparing yourself to others is a guaranteed self-esteem destroyer, I think. The best thing we can do now is to try to do the best that we can individually and not try to mold ourselves after others. It's difficult though. :(
Gosh, I've had this problem, too. Still coming to terms with it, actually. I don't know. I just feel like I forfeited an incredibly well-paying, overall secure major for something easier and more fun for me, but I keep on freaking out about what I'm going to do with my life, having made that decision.
If you like what you're learning, then that should be that. You have your talents! :)
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...And now I've gone off-topic, lmao. But good luck bb! I know you can do it! ♥
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yes, that's exactly it. Comparing yourself to others is a guaranteed self-esteem destroyer, I think. The best thing we can do now is to try to do the best that we can individually and not try to mold ourselves after others. It's difficult though. :(
Thank you. Good luck to you too!
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If you like what you're learning, then that should be that. You have your talents! :)
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