healthy boundariesmetaharaApril 23 2006, 01:07:57 UTC
I too experienced letting one (or two) i loved go when he/they chose self destruction....When someone commits fully to destruction and you are able to love and say "yes, i love you, but , i wont allow that in my life as it is sickening....let me know when you change that..." it's a clear sign of self love.
Re: healthy boundariesxrayzeraseApril 23 2006, 11:16:15 UTC
it was hard letting go anyone in this way-i still miss him deeply-and it's been years but-i know i had to leave i would have drowned as well if i stayed i agree about self love that in turn is about giving that is the strength of it all thank you very much for your words
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You've come such a long way
you can be very proud of yourself and your work on so many levels
hugs
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that means a lot to me:)
~hugs
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and you are able to love and say "yes, i love you, but , i wont allow that in my life as it is sickening....let me know when you change that..."
it's a clear sign of self love.
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but-i know i had to leave
i would have drowned as well if i stayed
i agree about self love that in turn is about giving
that is the strength of it all
thank you very much for your words
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It's good you're here, Andrea. Take care of you. I'm sending you a warming smile. :-)
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i am very glad to be here too :)
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