i think im having one of those boughts of depression, or just a little anxiety. i wouldnt quite call it depression, because i am aware that in about thirty minutes it will go away
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summer as in ME?! i just giggled at "worldly"; i've never even been to canada! har.
but: everything about john sounds so negative. if you perceive him as negative (which you do), then i don't really think you'll experience a sudden change of heart for any good reason. the whole "pursuer" thing, too -- if he's not coming after you, give him a week of no contact & see if he makes any attempt. otherwise i'd call it a bust. having fun is great, but if he's not actively trying to build anything with you, then...well, then, the "building" is being dismantled.
ah!! you guys are too smart. i love rosemary's "trifecta of fail" and it seems that summer agrees as well. ill have to make my intentions clear with all and i think it will be ok. im cool with hanging out with john and whatever, but i need to let him know that nothing is going to happen as long as he lives where he does and does what he does, i can not date a man with no ambition. how ever will he support a family in the long run. and you always have to think about the long run, well... at least i have to think about it.
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jay = already known fail
go with bob.
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but: everything about john sounds so negative. if you perceive him as negative (which you do), then i don't really think you'll experience a sudden change of heart for any good reason. the whole "pursuer" thing, too -- if he's not coming after you, give him a week of no contact & see if he makes any attempt. otherwise i'd call it a bust. having fun is great, but if he's not actively trying to build anything with you, then...well, then, the "building" is being dismantled.
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i love rosemary's "trifecta of fail" and it seems that summer agrees as well. ill have to make my intentions clear with all and i think it will be ok.
im cool with hanging out with john and whatever, but i need to let him know that nothing is going to happen as long as he lives where he does and does what he does, i can not date a man with no ambition. how ever will he support a family in the long run. and you always have to think about the long run, well... at least i have to think about it.
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