(Jaw dropps immedately to the floor and stays there throught the duration of the reading.) Shocked? Most understandably so! Please let me know if you need anything. Big hugs!
Dude. Saying that I can relate is a total understatement.
Bottom line - she's been faking it for a year...you do NOT want to be in a relationship based on a lie. And I know how much it SUCKS to be told, a year, two years, later that your partner "has not been happy since ____." Uh, thanks. Thanks for telling me that THEN.
But, I digress.
Hearing that you are ready to get on with your life is great.
it makes me so very sad. Not that I know you personnally or anything, but it is heartbreaking to read. Especilly the fact that you manage all the technicalities and seem so detached and cool headed. It is so hard, those situations. My primal reflex would be to sit on the floor crying and not get up until someone help me or tell me what do I have to do. I wish you the best in the grief process and the assimilation of the new unplanned situation you are in. I am so ackward with confort words, I am so sorry.
i don't know what i can say that would possibly make you feel better or if i should say anything at all. just know that i really do care about you both and i swear, based on everything i've been told, there were no indiscretions.
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Bottom line - she's been faking it for a year...you do NOT want to be in a relationship based on a lie. And I know how much it SUCKS to be told, a year, two years, later that your partner "has not been happy since ____." Uh, thanks. Thanks for telling me that THEN.
But, I digress.
Hearing that you are ready to get on with your life is great.
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I wish you the best in the grief process and the assimilation of the new unplanned situation you are in.
I am so ackward with confort words, I am so sorry.
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i'll see you tonight if you're out.
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