I am an old man well versed in this sort of thing.
Do you have a good friend you can visit? And the luxury of taking some time away from work to go to another town? A change of scenery, nothing too great, nothing that inspires too much nostalgia, but that's worked for me in the past.
Then, if you don't mind advice: if possible, keep a reminder of what he did somewhere nearby - maybe by the door. It sounds masochistic, but it'll keep in your head why you shouldn't see him, and one day you'll look at it and feel - maybe not nothing, that's a terrible thing to experience, but you'll feel that it's over and you don't need the reminder of why to stay away.
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Well, that depends on what position they're in.
If they're laying down, you can probably just step over them easily enough. If they're really big, though, you might have to stop onto them as an intermediate, uh, step. Make sure you've got a good solid footing before you put any of your weight on them, so they don't shift underneath you.
If they're standing, leaning, or slumped over something, then it's a matter of getting decent hand and footholds to climb with. There may be considerations to take into account here based on whether they're alive/awake or dead/unconscious, and if they're conscious, whether or not they're willing to help you get over them. You're going to have to use your best jud---
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Someone's just suggested to me that I may have misinterpreted your question. If that's the case, uh, sorry, but that's something I've got no basis for advice in
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All part of the service, here at Blood Gul--- actually, come to think of it, right now I guess that'd be the Black Mesa Tactical Command Facility. You have a good day, now.
Time helps. Staying away from the person while you're taking your time helps even better. And while you're waiting and staying away, finding other things that keep you busy and take the same kind of passion.
When my wife and I divorced, I went to graduate school. Since that was important to me, I could give it all the energy that I used to put into making her happy. I guess you'd call it an outlet.
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it hurts so badly to love someone and not know how to forgive them.
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Do you have a good friend you can visit? And the luxury of taking some time away from work to go to another town? A change of scenery, nothing too great, nothing that inspires too much nostalgia, but that's worked for me in the past.
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I appreciate the kindness more than I can say.
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Busy wont likely be a problem. staying away from him might be.
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but i never really got over shit. dont do whatever i keep doing.
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Well, that depends on what position they're in.
If they're laying down, you can probably just step over them easily enough. If they're really big, though, you might have to stop onto them as an intermediate, uh, step. Make sure you've got a good solid footing before you put any of your weight on them, so they don't shift underneath you.
If they're standing, leaning, or slumped over something, then it's a matter of getting decent hand and footholds to climb with. There may be considerations to take into account here based on whether they're alive/awake or dead/unconscious, and if they're conscious, whether or not they're willing to help you get over them. You're going to have to use your best jud---
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When my wife and I divorced, I went to graduate school. Since that was important to me, I could give it all the energy that I used to put into making her happy. I guess you'd call it an outlet.
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