I'm having so much fun reading
these unpopular fannish opinions that I felt the urge to have some of my very own. I might have gone overboard just a bit. There are 12 unpopular Angel opinions, 10 unpopular Buffy opinions, 10 unpopular general Jossverse opinions, and 20 popular opinions, just for kicks.
[spoilers through NFA]
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Some unpopular opinions alll my own. )
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Totally.
BTW, how on earth do you make time for fandom AND being a great student (especially with theses) the way you do? I'm kind of in awe.
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And I really should spend more time on theses and less on fandom... but fandom is so compelling!
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Totally with you on Spike, Xander/Anya, Spangel, the bisexuality of everyone, and the swiftness of Faith's arc. You've summarized Wes/Fred well: he's so blinded by his idea of her that he's ceased to love the real person. (That's how I read Mal/Inara, too-- it's a theme in the greater Jossverse.)
Friending you because I think I like your brain, and because callmesandy told me to.
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*sigh* It's things like this that make me glad I watched the show first and got into fandom second.
And you know, Joss's crush on her is obvious-- frightening, if you listen to the DVD commentary
I've heard that a lot but didn't notice it myself when listening to the commentaries. But then, I've got a big crush on Fred, too.
You've summarized Wes/Fred well: he's so blinded by his idea of her that he's ceased to love the real person. (That's how I read Mal/Inara, too-- it's a theme in the greater Jossverse.)Innteresting on the Mal/Inara; I'll have to consider that more. It's not a 'ship I like, so I spend most of my time ignoring it ( ... )
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I didn't realize the depth of the Fred hate until sometime in S5. I didn't like her for a while, myself-- it took the Jasmine arc and some rewatching of early S3 for me to figure out what she was up to.
Innteresting on the Mal/Inara; I'll have to consider that more. It's not a 'ship I like, so I spend most of my time ignoring it.It's a 'ship I only like if they never get together. I like the sexual tension, you know? But I am weak for Kaylee/Inara and Mal/Jayne ( ... )
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It's a 'ship I only like if they never get together. I like the sexual tension, you know?
I'm beginning to think I've got more than one of that kind of pairing. But I'm not sure I could name them off the top of my head.
I agree that Simon/Kaylee has that element of idealization, although I think it's mutual-- Simon starts seeing Kaylee as sophisticated and unattainable, or assumes she must be because she's into him. The other place I *really* see the dynamic is Angel/Cordy, where it seems like they fall in love because everyone is telling them they ought to.
Huh. I've only seen Firefly once, so I don't know if I could really say for sure, and I don't really get Simon (except insofar as he loves River). And I don't so much see that in Angel/Cordy, but then again, I'm odd.
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This one, though, is totally right on: 'I see everyone in Jossverse canon as bisexual, with a few possible exceptions that I can't think of at the moment.' Hell yeah! :)
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Yay bisexuality!
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I dislike the hate and stupidity and insults (and atrociously bad fanfic) in fandom but love the community of critical thinking. Yes, it has ruined me in some ways, but i tend to think that if something can’t stand up to a good critical eye than maybe i don’t wanna be watching it. (This is me being a bitch and clearly is not how everyone operates, and i wouldn’t require that everyone operate as i do -- much though i might like to.)I wouldn't abandon fandom for the world, and this kind of critical thinking makes my brain so happy, since it's the kind of thing I've always loved but never really had a name for until suddenly there was fandom and lots of people thinking seriously about the same kinds of things. On some level, I think I want to be able to analyze the source as it's given and not have to pick it apart and say, "look, continuity errors," or "look, bad feminism," or "look, Marti has issues." But then of course the source ( ... )
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Oh, critical analysis to the point where one forgets what one loves the show, yes, i definitely agree that that's a bad thing.
I'm a big fan of Spuffy, but i can see the discussion being head-spinning and thus leading to not-caring and am not going to force you to engage in a thorough discussion with me since you're content to just leave me to my opinions.
I'm not sure if i ever particularly identify with Buffy, but a friend of mine was a senior in college that year and really identified and her talk has ever since colored how i look at S6. I think even without her, though, i would have appreciated the idea of Life/Adulthood As Enemy and other such themes (though i loathed her decision to work at DMP; asking for a monetary settlement sufficient to last until Dawn was out of college would have been the sensible thing to do -- though i suppose one could argue that she was having self-loathing issues and an ( ... )
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Yes, you're entirely free to feel whatever you would like about Spuffy. I've read way too much meta on it, since it's a popular topic for meta, and have been told that:
-It was a horribly abusive relationship for both of them
-It was in fact a genuine romance
-Spike almost raped Buffy
-Buffy raped Spike
-Buffy's abuse of Spike was worse than Spike's of Buffy
-But of course anyone who believes that is in the habit of blaming the victim
-S7 should have dealt with it and then had them move on
-S7 they should have had sex, PCness be damned
-Spike was entirely to blame for the AR
-Spike wasn't at all to blame for the AR
-Buffy was to blame
-Or possibly Marti
-And also of course Joss, who's fault it all is.
-they were in a BDSM 'ship without a safeword and shit happens
-Their relationship had no BDSM elements whatsoever
Personally I think that Spike should have gone to Africa to get a soul, and they should have played it straight, no ( ... )
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Word. I've been having this same argument with other folks in other fandoms lately. I'm not a huge Dan/Sam fan in SGland and actually find the pairing somewhat squicky for the most part for many reasons... However, calling it 'incest' is soooo not a valid arguement. Unless TPTB pull an 'All My Children' and make Hammond their father, it's NOT incest.
Also, while I'm on a minor rant in your lj, just because there's a 20 year age gap, it does not automatically make the relationship 'paternal' in nature.
Sorry for the mini-rant. I stopped watching Angel with any sort of consistency after Doyle died. I have eventually caught all the eps though and agree with quite a few of your opinions.
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But yeah. The whole incest argument in regards to pairings that aren't actually incest? Makes my head spin.
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I just find the whole 'incest' arguement insulting on sooo many levels. Since it's pretty much always used in a pujoritive manner, it's like telling someone that their chosen pairing is 'perverted'. Not that all of us slashers aren't going straight to hell anyway for taking all of those nice pristine men and women and making them do all sorts of nasty things. *g*
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Hee. I *live* for the whacked out pairings, man. :p
fake!incest rant.
I actually am mostly tolerantly amused by the incest argument, and actually I consdered making the text on this icon read "twincest is sexy" instead of "this is sex," but then, I 'ship so much whacked and wrong stuff, and know it, and 'ship it because it's dark and wrong, so, yeah.
I don't know if I'm thick-skinned or thin-skinned, but if I don't let the Sam/Daniel thing go, I'll have a heart attack before I'm twenty, so I try to be cool about it.
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