Discerning a pattern.

[wired_lizard]

Every time so far that I've dated somebody who didn't have a strong, functional primary relationship at the time, they wound up, in whatever way, leaving me for somebody else they were also dating

Comments

[darthhellokitty]

It sucks to be dumped. It really does suck, and it feels like it's the end of the world, and no one will ever love you again.

HOWEVER, that isn't true. If you were 105, I might possibly concede that maybe you won't be in very many more relationships. But you're relatively young, and you will get a lot more tries. Every time a relationship ends, you learn something from it.

Things change, people change, you will change. The perfect partner for me when I was 20 would be a NIGHTMARE for me at 46.

I'm sorry you feel so awful, and that the awfulness you feel is making you believe a lot of hurtful things about yourself. It will pass.

***hugs***

[paper_crystals]

This post made me think of something. So I will probably post about it in my journal briefly. Do not take it as a direct response to this post or about you in any way. It just kinda made me see a pattern...

Also, *hugs*. *gives you tea*

[nevacaruso]

Am thinking of you this evening. Hope that the move went well. Enjoy your hermity peace and quiet time this weekend.

*huggles*

[heavenscalyx]

I'm sorry things are sucking so much for you. I wish I could think of something useful to say. I think that you are vastly underestimating yourself, and I cannot possibly expand on this enough with the minimal brainjuice I have right now. I send hugs, if you want them, and tea and crumpets and a good book, if not (or in addition).