Comments | whitelioncub: I've changed o.O (figuratively :P)

whitelioncub

I've changed o.O (figuratively :P)

Feb 22, 2008 09:12

Since coming back from Spain I've realized that I've changed and not in a small way. For a really long time I was always worrying about what I would do, or say, and what everyone would think of me for those actions. I constantly used to undermine myself making a decision about something I wanted and then freaking out worrying about whether it was ( Read more... )

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shy_matsi February 22 2008, 16:29:46 UTC

*snuggles* I know so many that have the same thoughts and feelings! I'm glad you accept yourself! To me, that really is the most important step in getting out of the pattern of worrying what everyone else thinks about you!
Change is good! :)

whitelioncub February 23 2008, 17:14:35 UTC

*giggles* yup! Change has been awesome, I'm kinda looking forward to seeing where things are gonna keep going from here *nods*

ghostlion February 23 2008, 00:24:51 UTC

If not, its ok to grow up too. It's natural and can be healthy.

I hope you don't lose any joy but find new joys too.

whitelioncub February 23 2008, 17:15:21 UTC

*hugs* thanks ghosty! I just don't want to grow up too much haha :)

suede_bear February 23 2008, 08:33:41 UTC

Just because youre now able to take care of yourself doesnt neccesitate that all of you must grow up and become independant. You like being taken care of, a love is a love, theres no reason that you cant still let yourself be the cub at heart and in play and also have a grown up side as well.

whitelioncub February 23 2008, 17:16:52 UTC

*nods* I just feel like I'm starting to lose touch with my cub side, I don't know if its part of that up/down cycle or whether its from me growing. I definitely don't want to lose my cub side though and I'm gonna fight ta keep it here *nodsnods*

shadowdragong February 26 2008, 17:34:05 UTC

...OH MY GOD, YOU'RE A BABYFUR?!

whitelioncub February 27 2008, 05:33:57 UTC

Oh Crap! I'm found out!!! *hides*

toranin May 19 2008, 05:23:34 UTC

Coming in a bit late but...I think this is good, and won't affect your babyfur side much at all, aside from making it healthier in general. You can still really enjoy dependence, even if you know that -- when you need to -- you can just turn it off and get things done on your own.

A lot of people have different modes or facets of themselves, and oftentimes they find that there's a synergy in it. Expressing one side makes it easier to show the other more fully. I hope you're finding that to be the case now, and will be looking forward to chatting with you sometime soon. :)