A few questions...

Mar 05, 2012 16:44

Anyone got any good, different ideas for what to have the ring bearer and flower girl carry/do ( Read more... )

attendants: ring bearer, invitations, attendants: flower girl

Leave a comment

Comments 19

ms_golightly86 March 5 2012, 22:36:09 UTC
What about an umbrella for the flower girl? The ring bearer could hold an oyster or starfish?

I'm planning on putting the website on my invite. Regarding RSVP cards for plated dinners, I'm putting little pictures of fish, chicken & beef for the guest to circle. If they want more details they can go to the website! Which is conveniently on the invite!

Reply


eightydollsyell March 5 2012, 22:38:24 UTC
We had our website on our invites (I have a book to send you, I'll send you one of our invites too...PM me your address)

our flower girl had a little bouquet

Why not have the ring bearer carry some shells? or a shell with the real rings tied in with a ribbon? (drill through the shell two holes) then no worry of dropping it. It might work better in my head than in real life.

Reply

eightydollsyell March 6 2012, 03:30:06 UTC
Yeah, I ripped your address off the Christmas card and then lost it. I've got everything packed up to send. I activated some of the website http://NicholsAndField.ourwedding.com the one on the invite is now down. Ignore the design they ate the one we used. The rsvp did allow you to pick the correct meal (it doesn't work now since everybody already rsvp'ed).

Reply


amme5832 March 5 2012, 23:22:47 UTC
Our website is on our invitations - that's how we're asking people to RSVP, then when they get to the RSVP page, we link to the menu so they can read through their options in advance.

Also, our website URL was long, so we made a bit.ly/names type of url that redirects to the site.

The invites haven't yet gone out - we have to wait a few more months - so I'm not sure how well received it will be, but I'm not too concerned.

Reply

amme5832 March 5 2012, 23:31:00 UTC
After all that, I forgot to say, why do you need to put the menu options on the save the date? The only purpose of the save the date is to 'save the date'. The other details can wait for the invitations, or you can put those details on the website.

Under your date for the save the date, you could then say something like,
"To find out where, check out our website, URL".

That way you get the website out, don't clutter the card, and I've read that people usually don't go to the website unless there is some kind of a push to action.

Reply

karnerblue March 5 2012, 23:34:42 UTC
We're not doing save the dates. The menu options will go on the RSVP cards (somehow).

Reply

amme5832 March 6 2012, 00:01:13 UTC
I completely misread that!

That said, your response cards can be something like
"x" seats have been reserved in your honour; please indicate meal preferences below:

yes, we can make it!
__ entree 1
__ entree 2
__ entree 3

Regretfully, we can't make it.

(In this example, I'm imagining checkboxes for the yes or no)

Reply


sonarvampress March 5 2012, 23:58:47 UTC
I think that even if she doesn't do a good job, you could still give the flower girl petals to toss. It also might be cute to let her toss small sea shells. Since she's so small she could have a little basket, and just toss a few, or she could toss sand if you don't mind her hands getting a little messy. You could have the ring bearer carry a shell with sand in it. Most people wouldn't even notice if there were rings it in or not. You could even glue the sand in just put a layer of sand then one of glue over the course of a few days until the shell is full and then it won't spill out when he walks.

Bubble guns would also be pretty cute for both. The flower girl should be able to hold her trigger down easily or you can tape it down for her.

Reply

karnerblue March 6 2012, 00:35:15 UTC
Shell full of sand... why didn't I think of that? That might be a good idea.

Reply

redfield79 March 6 2012, 15:28:27 UTC
I agree about the flower girl. My flower girl was JUST 3 years old and she did PHENOMENAL. :)

Reply


(The comment has been removed)

meredith_mae March 7 2012, 01:04:38 UTC
I have to say I am thrilled to death to see someone else who had vegetarian entrees! We had an entirely vegetarian wedding.

Our RSVP card said:

The favour of a reply is requested by the seventeenth of September.

M___________

___ accepts ____ declines

Please initial next to your choice of entree:

___penne with pesto ___ mushroom ravioli

OP, you are correct that the website shouldn't go ON the invitation, but you can include a card with "Additional information" that includes the website. You can also write out the detailed descriptions of the entrees there, if you'd like. We didn't have a website, so we used a "travel and accommodations" card which listed the closest airports, the hotel block information, and the information for the shuttle between the hotel and the venues.

Reply

x_patti_x March 7 2012, 02:54:47 UTC
Me too! Everyone is making us feel like we are the only people EVER to have all vegetarian food at our wedding- now i know there are at least 2 others!

Reply


Leave a comment

Up