I am sorry, but your mom is wrong on this. Your fiance deserves to have his best friend there - if you are sure that they are mature enough to not really bother each other during the event, then his being there shouldn't really impact your sister that much.
That's what I was thinking. I'm quite positive they'll both act like mature adults. Even if they just go about avoiding each other. *shrug* Thanks for the reassurance. <3
I agree with this. Unless Matt did something absolutely off-the-charts terrible to your sister, I think your fiance has the right to have his best friend there. In fact, I think David should call him up and press upon him how important his presence is and make sure he doesn't feel like he's unwelcome now.
It's your wedding not your moms or anyone elses. Do what you want. They should respect you on your day and play nice.
I know it's hard for me to be a cold hardass like that and not care about other's feelings but in all honesty it's saved me from a lot headaches over drama in the wedding. All in all, I hope you and your future hubby will be happy. *hugs*
Oh! When is the wedding? Cause I mean if it's 3 plus months from now I'd say keep him invited. It will give all parties a while to cool down and be able to be neutral to others. 6 months or more? Than don't even stress about this, it's old news.
It's hard for me too, truth be told. I tend to avoid conflict and confrontation when at all possible, so this is like my worst nightmare. Lol. Thanks for the advice, though. :3 *hugs back*
It sounds to me like you're making the right choice. If you've already sent out the invitations and your sister is indifferent, just let it be because uninviting him could create more drama than necessary. Besides, he might not come because of what happened.
does he OFTEN get drunk and ruin things? if not, cite his resume of publicly acceptable behaviour to your mother and get your sister to stick up for you too. it's your fiances best friend :/
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I am sorry, but your mom is wrong on this. Your fiance deserves to have his best friend there - if you are sure that they are mature enough to not really bother each other during the event, then his being there shouldn't really impact your sister that much.
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That's what I was thinking. I'm quite positive they'll both act like mature adults. Even if they just go about avoiding each other. *shrug*
Thanks for the reassurance. <3
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I know it's hard for me to be a cold hardass like that and not care about other's feelings but in all honesty it's saved me from a lot headaches over drama in the wedding. All in all, I hope you and your future hubby will be happy. *hugs*
Oh! When is the wedding? Cause I mean if it's 3 plus months from now I'd say keep him invited. It will give all parties a while to cool down and be able to be neutral to others. 6 months or more? Than don't even stress about this, it's old news.
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It's hard for me too, truth be told. I tend to avoid conflict and confrontation when at all possible, so this is like my worst nightmare. Lol. Thanks for the advice, though. :3 *hugs back*
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