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Feb 16, 2009 18:25

After finally reading, He's Just Not That Into You, a book I needed to read two years ago when I met Nick, I've come to a conclusion. No guy has ever been THAT into me. Not even remotely. So after concluding this, I've decided I'm giving up on men entirely. Which wasn't the point of the book, obviously. But, hey a girl can only handle so much ( Read more... )

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rucker529 February 18 2009, 03:13:21 UTC

I need to read that book. The movie helped a bit though.
But I understand, lol. He's just not that into me either.

way_x_away February 18 2009, 16:35:22 UTC

Nope, sorry Cece...he's not. There's a whole chapter about break ups & what it basically says is that if he's not running to you, flat out admitting he really did make a mistake & wants to be with you, he's not that into you. Even if he's still talking to you, that's just to boost his ego to know you're still around. Read the book, you'll either feel worse or better...but either way, you'll understand some things better. Sure helped me realize Hockey Dave, really just wasn't that into me after all. No matter how much it seemed like he was. Cause if he was THAT into me, he wouldn't have just disappeared on me.

rucker529 February 20 2009, 02:41:47 UTC

Ugh. Its not good news so itll probably make me feel worse. But I think its best for me to learn the truth instead of this repetitive setting myself up for dissapointment thing I keep doing.
I just want to believe its different with him because he's always danced to the beat of a different drum and has ALWAYS done differently than everybody else and not by the book, so I thought maybe this would be the same thing.
Mary's little tough-love pep talk definately helped. Even if I never get over him being "the one" or whatever. Ugh I hate him. He ruined my life.

way_x_away February 20 2009, 04:21:26 UTC

Giiiiiiiirl. I totally understand. I really felt like Nick ruined my life for the longest time. I never, ever thought I'd like anyone ever again. I cared so much about Nick & I never let myself get close to other guys cause of the possibility that Nick might eventually, someday wanna be with me. Well, that was retarded of me. hahaa. & then I met Dave & I gave him a chance & he showed me that there are guys out there who aren't Nick, who are better than Nick. But, well....Dave ended up sucking too! hahahaha.

Oh man, I dont even know where I'm going with this. I just hope eventually both of us will find someone who is truly worthwhile.

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way_x_away February 18 2009, 16:33:06 UTC

Don't worry, Mom. Even if I do move there it won't be til after summer. So, we can definitely have a few Woody's nights ahead of us. & I'll be 21 by then & I'll actually be allowed into the part where the bar is located. I believe you will, too? Correct? Let's get on that.

& if I do move there, I plan to have a big house & I want everyone to come see me. I'll be living a half hour out of Charleston, so we can go there and parttttty in those alleys! & find ourselves nice southern gentlemen of course!