Waiting for him. . .
I am aware that this dispels any lingering doubts about my pathetic, loser nature, but I can't help myself. I run my life by committee and crave feedback, so here goes. . .
I sent this to A about half an hour ago:
It wasn't just now. . .I called you before you told me about the condo (March 16) and you pretty much shot me down. It is not just now ( Read more... )
I sent this to A about half an hour ago:
It wasn't just now. . .I called you before you told me about the condo (March 16) and you pretty much shot me down. It is not just now ( Read more... )
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I totally understand how you feel, but consult is usually normal for these types of things ... unless you already got one?
Anyways, call me tomorrow. I'll be up around 10 your time. :)
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The breakup was the impetus. As long as you were willing to be his girlfriend, why did he need to change his living situation? Now you are not, and he can move forward. Of course that is a stunted and immature way of being. A mature person would make changes with future happiness and complete-packageness in mind. A mature person could move forward with their someone instead of without them. But this is not who you are dealing with.
My advice, since you asked, there must be a Grand Romantic Gesture on his part, with no prodding from you. He must declare his love and/or inability to live without you. Otherwise...NEXT!
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