so i understand almost everything you said, and agree with a lot of it...kind of... thing i dont understand:why do hook ups make you feel bad? i understand if the other person wants more that there is a possible feeling of using them, but if there is a sexual attraction and both parties understand then why feel bad about it? thing i dont necessarly agree with:what if bad boy is trying to find girl but doesnt know how? how many "good guys" do you see in media (most teen agers example for life) and even high school that are cool? well liked? respected by other guys? its not always a bad thing to be the "bad guy", just as long as thats not all there is to you. and plus, i believe that people go through fases of wanting a relationship to wanting hook ups. and hey you're in high school, why do you have to commit to anything?
i agree with what you said about hookups. There is never any emotion attached, especially since most hookups happen at a party when usually both persons are drunk. Plus, the feeling you get when youre kissing someone you have feelings for is such a better, stronger feeling then just a random hookup. Why give that up? Oh..and i'd take a good guy over a bad guy any day
you're going to a school where a lot of girls have never been told they were attractive, so they turned to studying. this is the 'late bloomer' crowd. gold mine for a 'nice guy' like yourself. my sugggestion for getting the most ass: pretend to be a bad guy to everybody, but be really nice to everyone in private (especially girls). for some reason this quality is really appealing to a lot of honeys.
Stop worrying about it Chris, you never implement your big ideas in real life anyway. Find a girl you like and hang out with her and make a move if you want to. It's only going to be an empty experience if you don't like her enough to stick around afterwards.
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thing i dont understand:why do hook ups make you feel bad? i understand if the other person wants more that there is a possible feeling of using them, but if there is a sexual attraction and both parties understand then why feel bad about it?
thing i dont necessarly agree with:what if bad boy is trying to find girl but doesnt know how? how many "good guys" do you see in media (most teen agers example for life) and even high school that are cool? well liked? respected by other guys? its not always a bad thing to be the "bad guy", just as long as thats not all there is to you. and plus, i believe that people go through fases of wanting a relationship to wanting hook ups. and hey you're in high school, why do you have to commit to anything?
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