For a moment I worried that this account might have disappeared. I am happy to see that while I allowed it to languish, the powers that be did not see fit to kill it
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We all forget things. It's part of being a human. Sure, we don't like it and it affects others, yet it does happen. Don't beat yourself up over it.
If you don't like the way your relationship is with your mom, or anyone for that matter, you have the power to change it. You have control over how you handle things on your end. Set an alarm, use your calendar, make a private facebook event that you're the only one invited to, whatever works for you so you can do the things you want.
On the other hand, can you give yourself the room to consider that you may be getting set up to fail? Sometimes, parents suck, too. And for some, we can't ever be good enough.
ok, she was upset, we can hold space for that. it might have been a good idea for her to check in with you a few days before the surgery. or the day of, even.
now i sit and comfort you. don't beat yourself up for all of history. you are doing the best you can.
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If you don't like the way your relationship is with your mom, or anyone for that matter, you have the power to change it. You have control over how you handle things on your end. Set an alarm, use your calendar, make a private facebook event that you're the only one invited to, whatever works for you so you can do the things you want.
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it might have been a good idea for her to check in with you a few days before the surgery. or the day of, even.
now i sit and comfort you.
don't beat yourself up for all of history. you are doing the best you can.
breathe it, Kim. you are good.
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