So last night was interesting. I found out that I was dating someone where I thought we were casually getting to know each other over coffee. I also did explain my system of commitment i.e. coffee does not equal the next step in relationship commitment after acquaintance. I should’ve known that he wasn’t going to listen. So! We called it off (after
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I am so glad that it's not a David thing. I was wondering if my thoughts and actions were justified (because my gut instinct was that they were). Sweet.
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Hahaha! Yeah, because a long-distance marriage would work just as well if not better than long-distance relationships...
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I get similar situations like this all the time. So often do guys like me, and try to force themselves unto me. I feel so violated every single time, but because I am treated like this all the time, I concluded that this must be normal; that I should change. However, recently I have decided that the behaviour is unacceptable to me. Others may like it, but that doesn't mean I have to. From now on, I am going to do what's most confortable for me (however still maintain my gentlemanly ways).
I felt like I was being predated all the time, but because they didn't realise that they were, I was very forgiving. I used to go by motivation and not action. I have learnt to take both into account.
I'll be starting fresh soon anyway. I have a bit of boundary-setting to do before then.
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