Things That Hurt and Things That Bring Me Joy

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Last night got on the phone with my dad....and expected a nice conversation as they have been pleasant for some time, but last night he was down right rude to me and put me down quite a bit. He called me a fatty compared to my two sisters, and said I have always been the ugly duckling out of his daughters. Then he gets off on how his marriage to

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[matopa]

Wow, your dad was a complete douche-y perv to you … *hugs* Sorry to say that about your dad but that whole conversation was wrong. I would have been like, “Im sorry dad but I have to hang up now, you’re being offensive. Call me when you grow some tact.” But I know that is easier said than done .. but really, wow. *hugs more*

Glad you had a great day with Nate. I hope you don’t let your father’s words hurt you more than they already have. He’s the one with the issues, NOT you. *hugs tight* He doesn’t deserve your pain or tears.

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Thanks! Yeah I about hung up on him altogether, but I ended up just listening instead....I just gained his friendship and so hate that I am losing it again. :( I have to learn to get over what he says. I know its not true, and most of my relatives think I am cuter then my sisters and can't believe that dad is the way that he is with me. Oh well, its something I have dealt with for such a long time. Someday, I think I will grow strong enough to say "I don't deserve this and you are WRONG!", till then i just try to ignore it. TRY, that's all it is.