Picking Up the Fragments of My Heart

[trullikoi]

Okay, I claim responsibility for what went on. It's ironic that when you really care about someone, someone who shares the same interests in philosophy, literature, and music, and then you lose that person, you feel like you lost everything. That's what happened to me. I feel like I lost everything...I lost hope, I lost my muse, I lost my daemon of

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[funkshowsista]

you don't have to be in a relationship to be a valuable member of society. you are young and bright and intelligent and beautiful. you have a son. you have potential. you don't need a boy, let alone some boy who doesn't recognize and appreciate the special person that you are.

[lintje]

Sweetheart, there are enough guys out there who will love you and who will love your son.

I thought I gave him what he wanted
I do hope you didn't do anything that's not like you. If there's one thing you shouldn't do, is change for a guy. He's got to appreciate you the way you are, with your interests and love for Jarno (;)). If he doesn't, he's not worth it, it's as simple as that.

The more you look for love, the less likely you are to find it (well, in my case, I don't look and still don't find it, but hey, I am a strange person anyway...) You have your own little boy who loves you unconditionally and when the time is right, you'll have 2 guys that'll love you unconditionally. Be patient, cause one day everything will turn out right for you :)

PS, how's the little man doing? How old is he now?

[trullikoi]

Well, I came close to doing something that was unlike me. By the way, my son is 20 months old now and getting into everything

[edania]

As usual Relin is right. She's a very wise young woman.
You don't have to be in a relationship. That's a stigma that the 'world' created and is best ignored. But don't think all is lost. I have a 33 year old niece who's husband left her with 3 young kids. She's found a nice young man who is going to marry her.

As you know, I'm going through a divorce at the moment. The other woman is about 15 years younger than me and a virgin. (That's a big draw card with Homer. He's obsessed with virginity.)
I have no idea what she looks like but she's probably a mindless ninny. I know he felt threatened that I was more intelligent than him so he had to keep putting me down in order to try and make himself look good.

The problem is most likely with your ex-partner. NOT you. Just be yourself because if a man can't love you for who you are then he can never make you happy.

Treasure your son. Sons are gifts from God.