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[shenth]

From last week's Savage Love:

"Do you think post-op transgender people have any obligation to tell their lovers they were once the other sex?"
On The Fence

"Yes."

We have an "obligation" now? Oh, how wonderful, yet another thing that's expected of us and not cissexuals. There are some good reasons for disclosure under certain circumstances, but "an

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[amokk]

Wait, what, that's it? Yes? No explanation? WTF?

WTG, douchebag. "Obligated no, but it could get you killed, so roll the dice and take your chances" is a more accurate answer.

[shenth]

He could have talked about the issues involved, but instead he chose that smarmy little "yes." Can't believe the fucker gets paid to give advice to anyone but his own group of cis gay men, since he clearly doesn't know how to do it.

[amokk]

Maybe that's it; he is just giving advice for his group of cis gay men, and telling "those people" they are obligated to tell, it protects them from being "tricked" into sleeping with gasp vaginas.

[ex_voz_lati]

Correct. As long as cis ppl pay his bills, he will kiss their ass.

Thank you for saving my fingers the typing.

[catamorphism]

I wrote a poll about this.

[catamorphism]

Is there any answer to that that won't cause you to flame me some more?

[kynn]

You could probably apologize and recant, and if you do it well, gender_euphoric probably won't flame you more.