oh my goodness, yes, the "short term survival goals" seem to be the best way to move forward. seriously. the Princess sounds like she'd be SO cute in her gi doing the drills! :)
and yes...while you can still care very much for an ex, sometimes you have to just let them go for a bit. yes, there's ALWAYS going to be co-parenting, but the personal stuff has to be let go. chris and i went through that, and through the "being angry" and are finally back to friendship, but it took the best part of two years to get to that point. and he's seen me being happy and mad and irritated and delighted with TheEngineer, so he knows i'm good now, too. you'll get there. *hugs*
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and yes...while you can still care very much for an ex, sometimes you have to just let them go for a bit. yes, there's ALWAYS going to be co-parenting, but the personal stuff has to be let go. chris and i went through that, and through the "being angry" and are finally back to friendship, but it took the best part of two years to get to that point. and he's seen me being happy and mad and irritated and delighted with TheEngineer, so he knows i'm good now, too. you'll get there. *hugs*
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