when did she die? i don't recall you telling me but because i don't read LJ all that thoroughly all the time i may have missed it.
when you say you are still in grieving mode, that gives me the impression that you think you should be over it. you shouldn't...it's not a time-limited thing. it's totally unpredictable.
if you know that you shouldn't be over it, please forgive me because then that probably sounded like a lecture. just want you to give yourself as much time as you need with this, and not to expect it to go away. i think experiencing the death of someone we love can change us forever...and not necessarily in good or bad ways. it just depends on how your mind, and heart, wraps itself around the loss...or doesn't.
love you, i shut up now. i should have gone with the less words is more here. my sympathies, darling. *hugs*
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when you say you are still in grieving mode, that gives me the impression that you think you should be over it. you shouldn't...it's not a time-limited thing. it's totally unpredictable.
if you know that you shouldn't be over it, please forgive me because then that probably sounded like a lecture. just want you to give yourself as much time as you need with this, and not to expect it to go away. i think experiencing the death of someone we love can change us forever...and not necessarily in good or bad ways. it just depends on how your mind, and heart, wraps itself around the loss...or doesn't.
love you, i shut up now. i should have gone with the less words is more here. my sympathies, darling. *hugs*
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