So, I have a sincere question...

[tlovisone]

I don't understand why people who "despise" "dislike" or otherwise have negative feelings for someone else add them to their LJ friends list, read their journal more than frequently, and check up on their profile once or more a week. The current girlfriend of an ex has been pretty much obsessively reading my journal (yes, I can tell who reads my

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[oncedelight]

stalking. i look up people i used to know sometimes when i get really bored at night. i'm remarkably good at finding people, but some names are difficult to find, like common names, or names where the first and last are both used as first names. (one example would be 'michael gregory'. old friend of mine. can't find him.)

there's also the psycho factor. i'm still trying to figure out if, and if yes, how much, psycho, i am.

there's also fear. depending on how trust-worthy HE is, maybe she's afraid he's screwing around on her. to which i would say, the more you fear it, the more it'll happen. god knows i have a serious fear of ex-girlfriends of my man. (not so much now, but in the past.) maybe they don't have the same closeness that he and you had. and that's something she might want to look at. hell, i'd reconsider the relationship, but that's just me.

btw, can you let me know about that ip thing? i'm really curious about it, and might want to add it myself to a few places i'm at online. email me? FindEverlost@hotmail.com

[tlovisone]

I'm sure at least part of it, for her, whether she would admit it or not - is fear. He's got issues, he breaks up with her and has been known to screw around in the past. But I hardly even speak to him, and when I do it's about his car and rarely if ever anything more important than that. Even those talks are few and far betwen, and I'm not in any way involved in either of their lives; so it seems so silly. There are women in his life far more threatening than me, I'm sure of that.

As for stalking, well my name is quite unique and I haven't found any others of me out there. She knows enough info about me to find me at any place she wanted to, and hell if she asked I'd just tell her whatever she wanted to know.

Part of it might be a psycho factor for some others that do it (you know who you are..).

I guess I'm trying to make sense of something that just doesn't really make sense >_

[oncedelight]

well, if he does have other women in his life, it's possible that she thinks you might know who they are? i mean, it'd be more likely that you'd know who or if than she would.

men like that suck and should be beaten with a stick. :p i have to feel bad for her, i know a bit of what that's like. the constant paranoia feeling sucks.

[tlovisone]

I wouldn't. He wouldn't tell me and I wouldn't be interested in knowing. I know he wouldn't tell me because I've warned her off about him before. She didn't listen, and she's young and naive in some ways. I do feel bad for her, a lot of people who know them both do. But in any case, I wouldn't have any knowledge to give her of any misdeeds he may or may not have committed. /sigh

It might be

[balain]

It really could be any reason. Everyone is so different. Maybe jealoaus for some reason or just likes to see what other people are doing even the ones she hates, or she likes the colors you use in your LJ. Hard to say with her actually saying why.

The Real Reason...

[murderinreverse]

... Is all tied into a joint effort by both the Stonemasons and Illuminati to get all the LthreethreeT infoz that your LJ has to offer. On the surface, she may seem like a deranged bitch of a girlfriend (which, make no mistake, she certainly is), but there is much more to it than that. You'd do well to take her out with the quickness, otherwise you might be the one wearing concrete boots at the bottom of a river. My inside informers tell me that that would be your price for not writing anything about her boyfriend whom you hardly ever talk to in the first place. Ayup.

hi :)

[lynbug]

just so you don't think im a stalker...it's lynette/lynbuggy/ettenyl :)