So, I have a sincere question...
I don't understand why people who "despise" "dislike" or otherwise have negative feelings for someone else add them to their LJ friends list, read their journal more than frequently, and check up on their profile once or more a week. The current girlfriend of an ex has been pretty much obsessively reading my journal (yes, I can tell who reads my journal, how often, and from what IP.) and checking my profile frequently. Recently she's added me to her LJ friends list, and I'm boggling at this. She detests me, or so she did last we spoke (and she still has me on her block list, so..), and I've never been very fond of her. I don't write about her, or her boyfriend, or anybody/anything that has anything to do with her. I'm completely befuddled.
Obviously, I know she'll read this. Perhaps she'll give me an answer, but I'm curious as to what the rest of you think - why do people do that? If one hates someone or otherwise dislikes them, why would one want to keep up with the goings on of their (rather boring) life? This isn't meant as an attack or a snipe, as I said I know she still has me on block so I'm prevented from merely asking her myself, and of course I like picking the brains of those who waste time reading my journal :)
I'll probably update again soon
Obviously, I know she'll read this. Perhaps she'll give me an answer, but I'm curious as to what the rest of you think - why do people do that? If one hates someone or otherwise dislikes them, why would one want to keep up with the goings on of their (rather boring) life? This isn't meant as an attack or a snipe, as I said I know she still has me on block so I'm prevented from merely asking her myself, and of course I like picking the brains of those who waste time reading my journal :)
I'll probably update again soon