News from the Conflict Adverse

Feb 27, 2014 16:47

I am soooo conflict adverse, it can be a true burden. One time I was in a store that was having a big sale on shoes. Two women were arguing over a pair of shoes which weren't my size, a color I wanted, or a style I would ever wear. But I was so uncomfortable with their argument that I had to leave the store. This is how conflict adverse I am!
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diek09 February 28 2014, 00:19:35 UTC
While I was in college there was this one girl (well, I was the only man in the class to be precise) that really had something against everybody. She proved to be a very fuzzy, annoying and envious girl, so many of us didn't like her. Problem was that she always had her own opinion about everyone (including the teachers) and most of the time they weren't really nice opinions. I was always like: duh, girl, if you're so fucking smart, why the hell are you going to college? You should've already gotten your damn degree, right?

Most of the time we tried to ignore her, and she quite realised about the situation, but didn't really mind what others thought of her. In my opinion, I suggest you just ignore her, since her feelings for you won't change over time (this girl I mentioned was really envious of me, but I couldn't help it, right?). Just don't let her stupidity and inmaturity to overwhelm you. Concentrate on the good aspects of your class, since you get along with everybody but her.

*hugs*

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bluedelft February 28 2014, 00:47:27 UTC
((Hugs))

Loud Girl really needs to grow up and act like an adult.

Yes, it does happen to everyone. For me I usually try to stay away from that person but sometimes that easier said than done.

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kaige68 February 28 2014, 01:50:25 UTC
*hugs* I can't tell you do this and do that. There are people that are in our lives to cause us grief that we need to get over or around. She is clearly your obstacle. Bitch. But what can you do?

I can tell you that I have handed stuff off to the person I don't like to just get the ordeal over with. I can tell you I've not gotten along with some people who have turned into adults and we both just learned to get the job done. And I can tell you that I've polished off my brass ones and steamrolled some people. I always consider myself to be an introvert, quiet and shy. SHUT UP! I DO! But I can also tell you that some of my best experiences in life, the ones that I believe have made me a better person, were the ones where I had to step up and handle things.

You can do this! I like the idea of A Tkeyla Production. But Eggs and I love you no matter what!

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