It started as a response to a post, and got out of hand...

[thesaruswrex]

Regarding sexuality: My own little epiphany.

1: My most basic rule of thumb is, "if I could not be connected enough with this person to raise an offspring in a civil manner, with the offsprings best interest foremost in our minds, then I don't do an activity with them, that an offspring is even remotely possible. That covers any form of intimacy,

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[capi]

You are one amazing person, my friend.

*ponder*

And i am proud to call you my friend.

*grin* So there!

((( hug )))

You and i may not move in the same circles, but when it gets down to basics, we think a LOT alike.

[merchimerch]

AMEN! Hallelujah

[sidelong]

"" "I am not responsible for your afterthoughts

[stacymckenna]

Beautiful.

#10 was actually recited as part of our wedding ceremony.

[giancarlo]

I remember that. Thesaruswrex and I broke up laughing.

[wildwoosi]

In some ways #5 reminds me of the types of intimacies my loves and I have been talking about. There's physical intimacy, but without emotional and intellectual intimacy, the physical is very shallow for me. There's also recreational, crisis, spiritual intimacy, and I'm finding I want to experience all of these with the people I'm in love with.

BTW, I found you through delerium3. Don't think I know you in person... ;)

added... sorry, it has been a few years.

[thesaruswrex]

I had not read all the responses to this for a *long* time.