maybe I just have shitty taste in people...

[thedaveytrain]

why do I keep making friends who turn out to be assholes and then make me question all of my other friends and wonder who is going to turn asshole next? the latest one is only really a work friend, but still...I thought I'd found someone that I could really be friends with here and then she turns out to be a flaming cunt-rag. I'm seriously thinking

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[fatbearman]

I'm sorry to hear that. I just went through the same thing myself so I know how you feel, but there are still a few of us out here who value our friendships and give it unconditionally. HUGS

[timbond]

friendships are hard work but very well worth it.

a couple of years ago I had the exact same thing happen to me - total pal to my face, complete douche behind my back. When I called her on it (publicly), SHE had the nerve to complain that somehow I had wronged her. No one who mattered believed her, of course, but it still sucked shit.

The shittiest part of it all is that it makes us not want to trust people and get to know them. I can't recommend floating -totally- by yourself, but I understand the feeling.

If there was any silver lining to the shit, it was that I learned to better appreciate my true friends and I've tried to cultivate those friendships and keep them healthy.

[thedaveytrain]

that is exactly it...I've been walking around for two days wondering what my "friends" are saying behind my back...right now I feel like I am completely alone and can't trust anyone. it sucks.

[thedaveytrain]

what's worse is now I am in such a foul mood I am snapping at my kids for no reason...I fucking hate this.