Yeah I hear ya, I'm just deciding to see what happens. If they make the effort, then they're worth keeping as a friend; if they don't, then they weren't a good friend to start with.
Yes, I know what you mean - sometimes it seems that I put out the effort and others don't.
I also think it gets harder to make new close friends as we get older, we all get set in our ways a bit, already have our networks, and it makes it harder to let new people in.
Thanks Mikey. It's not that it's been a bad year, have met some good people, I just thought that they might have developed into closer friendships by now. But you're right, it's definitely about networks, and at the moment we're still on the outside of them.
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I also think it gets harder to make new close friends as we get older, we all get set in our ways a bit, already have our networks, and it makes it harder to let new people in.
Not much comfort - hope the next years is better.
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It's not that it's been a bad year, have met some good people, I just thought that they might have developed into closer friendships by now.
But you're right, it's definitely about networks, and at the moment we're still on the outside of them.
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