Comments | tenshi: It's Safe To Write Here

tenshi

It's Safe To Write Here

Jun 20, 2010 12:28

I knew all those weird dreams I was having meant something. I dream about my ex-boyfriend for like 3 weeks & then he adds me as a friend on Facebook. I have no idea what I should do. I would like to talk to him as an adult. I'm concerned about his mother & I'd like to make sure he's doing ok for himself. My best friend knows how many times I ( Read more... )

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Re: *comfort hug* tenshi June 21 2010, 01:38:38 UTC

No, you don't know this guy. The only Ex you know Lee from RPC. And even though we broke up awhile ago, we're still BFF. We're actually planning on buying a house together sometime early next year.
He's threatened because this ex is really cocky & thinks he's God's gift to women & told me that my husband was "Just keeping the seat warm for him."
The more I remember things about this guy, the less I care, honestly... lol...

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Re: *comfort hug* tenshi June 22 2010, 02:44:24 UTC

It's because we were all friends together. I keep in touch with a few people here & there. But Lee is the most constant one. We dated, lived together, didn't work out & then just took care of each other.

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tenshi June 22 2010, 02:47:01 UTC

Things turned out ok for the better. My husband is ok with a normal talking friendship with him & my ex respects my marriage.

kawaiinochan June 21 2010, 18:27:12 UTC

You cannot change how either the ex or the hub react. But I guess in my experience, if I want someone in my life, thats the thing other people cannot change.

So, I guess if you pursue getting in contact with him, you cant change how your hub feels ... just as you cant control the ex's attitude. And the quarrel the hub may have with the ex ... thats between them. They can only change themselves ... you cant change how either of them is or feels.

I guess the only thing I could say is be brutally honest with everyone, yourself included, and move however you will, and go from there.

tenshi June 22 2010, 02:46:07 UTC

Being honest is the best policy. Everything turned out ok after expressing that I'm very happy with my husband & my husband is fine with me having a normal open contact friendship with him. And he's been very polite & respectful.

kawaiinochan June 22 2010, 03:00:48 UTC

Sounds like it worked out ... Im glad for you.