This is a friends only journal.

[tealight_rookie]

This is a friends only journal. Have a look at my profile, and if you like what you see, light a candle and tell me about your journey. If we're following the same stars I'll probably add you back.

The Journey
Mary Oliver

One day you finally knew

Comments

[footiepyjamas]

Hi there. I just love what you've put on your bio line and couldn't agree more. You always have such nice and/or funny things to say over at suzanna_o's and I figured your lj would be more of the same and wanted to friend you if that's alright.

[tealight_rookie]

Absolutely! I've always thought the same of you, actually. It will be lovely to have you as a friend.

some colour for tealight! :))

[myrtle_stars]

Amen!
I love your words.

Re: some colour for tealight! :))

[tealight_rookie]

Why thank you kind soul...

How'd you end up back at my 'friends only' entry though?!

Re: some colour for tealight! :))

[myrtle_stars]

am i not supposed to be? :((

Re: some colour for tealight! :))

[tealight_rookie]

Oh, no, of course you can! I was just curious how you got back here is all :)

I love comments, wherever they may fall.

[effrontery]

I wonder if I could friend you? I posted to you in the ACOA community and then checked out your journal/interests, looks like we might have quite a few in common, and I'd love to hear your story.

Thanks either way!

[tealight_rookie]

Of course! Welcome :)

And I've added you, too...

[changinglight]

I'd love to add you to my friends list. I've been so inspired by so many of the comments that you leave Sandra...and love "The Journey"--it is one of my favorite poems. Right now, I am determined to save my own life, and to live deeply while doing it, live honestly, live the best life that I can. You strike me as someone on the same path.

Christina

[tealight_rookie]

Hi Christina,

Many thanks for this, and sorry for taking a while to reply.

At the beginning of the year I had a long look at my internet activities and how they were interacting with my boundaries etc, and as a result I reduced my friends list right down. Much as you are someone who I think I could form a good friendship with, I'm kind of giving myself a break in terms of adding new people. Would it be okay to maybe reassess in a couple of months? It really isn't anything personal, I just need time to figure some things out...

I hope you understand. :)

Ruthie

[tealight_rookie]

Hi Christina,

Back in January you asked if you could add me to your friends list, but I was in a place where I really needed to assess my boundaries etc. Anyway, I feel more secure now, and would be honoured if you still felt like being LJ friends. If not I do completely understand. I hope you are well whichever way.

Best wishes,

Ruthie

[changinglight]

Hey Ruthie,

That sounds terrific!

Thanks,
Christina

[tabloidscully]

Hey hon,

I only just got back on to LJ today--are things okay? I saw you had unfriended me, noticed you had been quiet elsewhere and wanted to see how you were.

((hug))

[tealight_rookie]

Hey you,

Yes, everything's okay... I just made some changes at new year. I'm no longer around at AS, and have reduced my friends list here right down. It's nothing personal at all, I just needed to do some boundary work for myself.

Hope you're well, too.

Take care.