No, you don't need a psychologist for this. And this is not your problem. I've had some similar experience like you in the past, so I totally understand your feeling. As we get older, it's hard to meet new people and that is what you need. Maybe try using dating apps just to make some friends (you don't have to meet them for real but just get to know new people, maybe you will get to meet someone who shares similar interest with you that way). The key here is to meet new people that is outside of your current circle. But the most important thing is to love yourself first and not rely on someone else for it.
Thank you for replying me, this made me very happy, I'm glad to have read your message! For dating apps, I thought about them too, but I am a bit scared to meet people who want just have..."fun" (not in a good way...). Do you think that it's possible using dating apps for meet new friends?
I think it's possible to meet new people there but have to be extra careful with players. And I have a few friends who met their husband on facebook, now happily married with kids. Maybe you can try looking for new friends that stay near your area? Create a new profile for that if you're not comfortable sharing too much of your info.
i dont think you need one to be honest..i think 30s hit us like crazy and maybe its just a hormone.. love yourself first before u love anyone else.. they said once u love yourself, eventually the love will comes to you naturally :) hang in there and try to change yourself to be girlish and be confident ! Confident is the beauty of everything !
Hi, I just read your post and I feel like writing something here. I just wanna say that you don't need to go to psychologist. You're fine. Totally fine just the way you are. Your feelings, Your thought, your personality, your fashion sense, it's totally fine. Believe me, one day you'll fine your true love. The one that love you for who you are and the one who will make you smile every single day.
Oh! btw, I do think you're wonderful girl when I read this post. Someone out there surely share the same thought as me ;D
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As we get older, it's hard to meet new people and that is what you need. Maybe try using dating apps just to make some friends (you don't have to meet them for real but just get to know new people, maybe you will get to meet someone who shares similar interest with you that way). The key here is to meet new people that is outside of your current circle.
But the most important thing is to love yourself first and not rely on someone else for it.
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For dating apps, I thought about them too, but I am a bit scared to meet people who want just have..."fun" (not in a good way...). Do you think that it's possible using dating apps for meet new friends?
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And I have a few friends who met their husband on facebook, now happily married with kids. Maybe you can try looking for new friends that stay near your area? Create a new profile for that if you're not comfortable sharing too much of your info.
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love yourself first before u love anyone else.. they said once u love yourself, eventually the love will comes to you naturally :)
hang in there and try to change yourself to be girlish and be confident ! Confident is the beauty of everything !
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I just wanna say that you don't need to go to psychologist. You're fine. Totally fine just the way you are.
Your feelings, Your thought, your personality, your fashion sense, it's totally fine.
Believe me, one day you'll fine your true love. The one that love you for who you are and the one who will make you smile every single day.
Oh! btw, I do think you're wonderful girl when I read this post. Someone out there surely share the same thought as me ;D
*sorry for my poor english
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