updated entry

[tat2edsdgirl]

Remember when I posted the entry that apparently pissed off members of my family, and my uncle had responded, telling me so? Well, if anyone's interested, I finally replied to his last comment. It's at the end of the link posted above [duh! =)]. It took me almost a month to reply (his last comments were sent April 6th), partly because I wasn't

Comments

[daspunkster]

I'm glad you are expressing your feelings. I'd be highly concerned if you weren't. I don't think there is anything that you need to apologize for. You did as your mother wished and you know that. Sometimes it's hard for family to accept that someone they loved died so young from such a horrible thing so they do the "if only..." and "what if..." They may direct it at you because you are the one that was with her. Please try so hard not to take it personal. Easier said than done, but you know deep in your heart that your mother is at peace and that's what she wanted. ***hugs***

[tat2edsdgirl]

I don't feel I need to apologize either, yet I'm being told I do. I'm also being told to say thank you for what was done. But, I have yet to hear a thank you from anyone in that family for what I have done. It seems to me, they are being hypocritical. It is hard to not take it personally because I was the one taking care of mom, and seeing as they aren't happy with her care and treatment, so it seems to all come down on me.

And, yes I know that my mom is at peace, and is no longer suffering, and that helps, sometimes.

Thanks for the hugs. =)

[film_critter]

you have nothing to ever apologize for. If anyone doesn't like what you say, they don't have to read it. plain and simple. :)

[tat2edsdgirl]

I know. Just wish other people would see it that way...