The word is 'relationfriendship', by the way. Trust me - i've been there and done that repeatedly.
You know I will come get you if I can get my hands on a car, right? That if you'd call and wake me at 3 a.m. i'd first get out of bed and then ask what's up?
And that's why I arrange sleepover parties, hon. So that those of us who have to drive home later can drink to their heart's content - or breakage - during the night. Maybe it's time to set up another such party, if we can only agree on the guest list; or you can set up one for yourself.
(Also, genius, you linked to a private post. I think it's private, as i'm getting a "403 Forbidden" error notice.)
I know i'm even more bold in this comment than I usually am; forgive me. It comes from looking at your words and thinking it sounds exactly like me about - half a year ago, give or take?
I guess I ran out of wise words. You really need to get into a relationship or two or three - first time the scariest. And, well, i'm not going to say that it's worth the repeatedly broken heart;
( ... )
The thing is, you'd come, and Mel would come, and Neta li would come, and Helena and Lilach and everybody - but for a crisis, and if I'd ever call you on 3 a.m. it would be a crisis.
and the drinking driving thing is a symptom, not the desease.
About relationships - I got into JDate, I hope it'll bring something.
And I know you love me, I love you also, but it's been a year, and it seems like whenever I get a hold on things she jumps into my mind again.
I never expected her to leave my mind so soon, as well - we were together for 11 years. I just wish sometimes.
The first yearmark is when it only begins to heal. I've certainly been through the losing-best-friend gig enough times to know that. It seems the mind needs a time stamp to latch onto before it begins to put things behind and cover them with earth.
Y'know, JDate doesn't bring. It takes browsing profiles and sending winks and... Oh, i've seen enough people here do it for enough time. But still, JDate squee!
The drinking/driving thing is indeed a symptom (and hardly a positive one), but getting drunk in safe company does seem to release a considerable amount of destructive energy in a rather harmless way.
I relate, as you know. Not much to add, since we both kinda regurgitated this kind of talk, what, months ago. Never the less, it doesn't stop praying on your mind, I know, so *snuggles*
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You know I will come get you if I can get my hands on a car, right? That if you'd call and wake me at 3 a.m. i'd first get out of bed and then ask what's up?
And that's why I arrange sleepover parties, hon. So that those of us who have to drive home later can drink to their heart's content - or breakage - during the night. Maybe it's time to set up another such party, if we can only agree on the guest list; or you can set up one for yourself.
(Also, genius, you linked to a private post. I think it's private, as i'm getting a "403 Forbidden" error notice.)
I know i'm even more bold in this comment than I usually am; forgive me. It comes from looking at your words and thinking it sounds exactly like me about - half a year ago, give or take?
I guess I ran out of wise words. You really need to get into a relationship or two or three - first time the scariest. And, well, i'm not going to say that it's worth the repeatedly broken heart; ( ... )
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and the drinking driving thing is a symptom, not the desease.
About relationships - I got into JDate, I hope it'll bring something.
And I know you love me, I love you also, but it's been a year, and it seems like whenever I get a hold on things she jumps into my mind again.
I never expected her to leave my mind so soon, as well - we were together for 11 years. I just wish sometimes.
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Y'know, JDate doesn't bring. It takes browsing profiles and sending winks and... Oh, i've seen enough people here do it for enough time. But still, JDate squee!
The drinking/driving thing is indeed a symptom (and hardly a positive one), but getting drunk in safe company does seem to release a considerable amount of destructive energy in a rather harmless way.
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And about everything else, dunno. I guess time will tell.
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Not much to add, since we both kinda regurgitated this kind of talk, what, months ago.
Never the less, it doesn't stop praying on your mind, I know, so *snuggles*
PS no linky... I do believe it may be broken.
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And I know I keep bringing it up, but, well, it's still on my mind a lot...
And *snuggles* back :)
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