okay you know what? if you don't wanna read my LJ, then don't. when i say no pity i mean it and i hate it when people do it anyhow- JEFF. excuse me i live in Woburn (which u spelt wrong) and trust me we are NOT what you think. if you think we suck so bad- stop hanging out with James and Mai Tai and me and Tenile. please. do us all a favor. i am ALL for Laura and James. go read her fucking LJ. i love them both and i will see to it that they are happy. you have no right to tell us anything. even if it is some "friendly advice". my ass. i'm glad u think Kevin and Teeny are doing well cuz i'm sure they are waiting for your approval. listen to your own advice Jeff- please. and don't go around giving drinking advice. it's none of your Goddamn business. especially since u invite 16 year olds to your parties. and as for the cryptic posts- it's our fucking LJ's and you have NO right to tell ANYONE what to post. some people (like me and Laura) express their feelings that way. i'm sorry if it inconveniences you but frankly said- DEAL WITH IT
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I DIDNT INVITE THE FUCKING 16 YEAR OLD and I was pisseed off way more than anyone else that one was there. And you know what, you've taken the entire thing out of context. You are way over sensitive about this. I even mentiong something about the pity thing so I wouldn't be singling you out. But rgardless of what you say, it was a pity post, just because you say it isn't one doesn't change anything. And you don't know shit about me so stop pretending to. Kevin agrees with me that these things needed to be said. What I said was opinion as well so you can't knock it without being hypocritical yourself. And I can't say that Im all for Kevin and Tenile but you can say you're all for James and Laura? What bullshit is that. When I mentioned James and Laura and people letting them be, I wasn't talking about you at all, I know you approve of it, already knew, laura told me. Its people like Sarah and Chris that have openly objected to them being together, although you may not know that cuz you've been to busy wallowing you your self-pity
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"Its people like Sarah and Chris that have openly objected to them being together" that is fucking bullshit and you know it! i have never ONCE been against james and laura dating. the only problem i had was that i was worried about what it would do to scott and james' friedship. ask them yourself if you don't believe me. cause ya know what, even when i was going out with james before we broke up the first time i knew that they would make a great couple. so ya know what, you can take what you think about me and shove it up your ass cause the only time since the sememster started that you've talked to me was to find out what was due in philosophy. and you have YET to talk to me since i dropped the class. so you can go fuck off.
Ask james and laura you say? I know more about it that you could imagine. So you shutup. You've been complaining about James spending way to much time up at umass Lowell neglecting his friends, as has chris. You simply assumed that james went up there several times a week, when that wasn't untrue. Some of us, unlike you, have a healthy balance of putting our significant others before friends, how many relationships of yours have fallen apart cuz you neglected your boyfriend to hang out with your friends way to much? I know James complained about it, as did Bill. And I stopped talking to you because you stopped talking to me and stopped inviting to me to anyways, I would keep hearing about a bowling night from kevin that I hadn't heard of. So since you couldn't seem to either remember my existence enough to invite me, or you simply didn't want me there, thus you weren't worth talking to. So get off your high fucking horse and shut up. You didn't saw in so many words that you disprove of Laura and James, but you acted like it
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Jeff, people know how to talk for themselves! Let people who have a problem with others tell them off, what right do u have! Don't act so high and mighty when it comes to telling people about relationships! You are NO WHERE NEAR perfect when it comes to dating! And I agree with Jess, if people want to be cryptic they can be ITS THEIR LJ! IF you don't want them to be cryptic dont read them! Your so judgemental, before you talk about someone else look at your own life! Do you have any right to be making judgements? Not more than the rest of us thats for sure! You tell people to stop whinning, IN THEIR LJ BY THE WAY, why dont you stop whinning about what people write and do something productive!
Umm, I never said I was perfect, infact Im pretty sure I said EXACTLY the opposite. I put myself into half those categories because I know Im not perfect. And sometimes people don't know how to talk for themselves, and I haven't once ehre released any information thats been confided in me, I wouldn't do that. I was just sick of people not being honest about how they felt about things. So I though I would honest about everything that I thought was fucked up lately. And you know what I still think more people shoudl do that. And there wouldn't of been any problem if some stubborn people just A ignored me, or B admitted I am right about some things. Kevin fessed up, he admitted it and said he was trying, but some of you poeple can just be way to stubborn, and thats my opinion. I just think we should be more ope nand honest since all this tlaking behind other's backs only hurts people more in the long run. As far as the productiveness of this entry, it was very productive, the comments are a testament to that.
Ok now... Keeping this short, sweet, and to the point... As for peoples personal posts, whether they're pity posts or not, they should be about what one feels like writing about... and there are times when making a private post would be much better than making a public post, I know, since I've made a few PRIVATE posts lately...knowing that what I said could cause problems and misunderstandings... As for the "attacks" that people are making on each other, Jeff included himself in half of his comments anyway... he knows he's not perfect, just like no one is... OK, and for when Jeff said "Woburn should grow up" I KNOW he meant a select group that did not include Jess, if fact, I know EXACTLY who he meant... As for people being paranoid in relationships, it does happen, but Jeff is right, in the fact that it usually rnds up hurting others more than it helps...so some good advice, from Slurz in another recent entry, said to chill out, and everything will be ok... And when Jeff said care about your significant other more than your friends
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and Laura cleared a few things up herself on the phone. but nobody cleared up for me why i shouldn't post what i want without people charicterizing my LJ. pity posts? grrrrr. and as for cryptic posts? don't even get me started
People people people. I don't have to justify what I said, I just said what I thought about everything going on, and got it out for people to know what I thought about them and about drama and about certain situations. If that isn't the point of LJ, to express your thoughts, then I don't know what it is. I just wasn't cryptic about it and decided to say thigns straight forward, does sugar coating it really matter that much to you people? Oh and Kenna, you've actually stated that the difference between my advice and yours is that I sugar coat it more. I am sick of sugar coating it.
Ok, I probably shouldn't be doing this, but I think you and Quira are misunderstanding what I've been saying since yesterday. Jeff, it is your total right to write whatever you want in your livejournal. Same goes for Jess and everyone else, that's what you get them for, to write whatever you want in them. The thing that must be realized is that when you don't sugar coat or are cryptic, you run the risk of starting a flame war (see all above comments) and as long as you are willing to deal with that, then write it. My hugest thing is I can't watch Jess be upset for something like this. She did misunderstand everything but two comments. 1) the pity post one and 2) the cryptic message one. 1) I just want to say, yes, it is your opinion that she wrote a pity post, but I just wish you could understand that the way you wrote it was insulting, even to me until I talked to you and you explained it calmly. I understand why that hit home with her so much. Although this was your opinion, you came off very strongly with it. 2) and the
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i'm done with this LJ post.
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