okay you know what? if you don't wanna read my LJ, then don't. when i say no pity i mean it and i hate it when people do it anyhow- JEFF. excuse me i live in Woburn (which u spelt wrong) and trust me we are NOT what you think. if you think we suck so bad- stop hanging out with James and Mai Tai and me and Tenile. please. do us all a favor. i am ALL for Laura and James. go read her fucking LJ. i love them both and i will see to it that they are happy. you have no right to tell us anything. even if it is some "friendly advice". my ass. i'm glad u think Kevin and Teeny are doing well cuz i'm sure they are waiting for your approval. listen to your own advice Jeff- please. and don't go around giving drinking advice. it's none of your Goddamn business. especially since u invite 16 year olds to your parties. and as for the cryptic posts- it's our fucking LJ's and you have NO right to tell ANYONE what to post. some people (like me and Laura) express their feelings that way. i'm sorry if it inconveniences you but frankly said- DEAL WITH IT.
I DIDNT INVITE THE FUCKING 16 YEAR OLD and I was pisseed off way more than anyone else that one was there. And you know what, you've taken the entire thing out of context. You are way over sensitive about this. I even mentiong something about the pity thing so I wouldn't be singling you out. But rgardless of what you say, it was a pity post, just because you say it isn't one doesn't change anything. And you don't know shit about me so stop pretending to. Kevin agrees with me that these things needed to be said. What I said was opinion as well so you can't knock it without being hypocritical yourself. And I can't say that Im all for Kevin and Tenile but you can say you're all for James and Laura? What bullshit is that. When I mentioned James and Laura and people letting them be, I wasn't talking about you at all, I know you approve of it, already knew, laura told me. Its people like Sarah and Chris that have openly objected to them being together, although you may not know that cuz you've been to busy wallowing you your self-pity loneliness to even notice what has been going on. And I have every right to say what I think people should be able to post, hell, you just tried to tell me I don't have the right to post something, talk about your paradox hypocracy. Get over yourself, very very little of that post had anything to do with you.
"Its people like Sarah and Chris that have openly objected to them being together" that is fucking bullshit and you know it! i have never ONCE been against james and laura dating. the only problem i had was that i was worried about what it would do to scott and james' friedship. ask them yourself if you don't believe me. cause ya know what, even when i was going out with james before we broke up the first time i knew that they would make a great couple. so ya know what, you can take what you think about me and shove it up your ass cause the only time since the sememster started that you've talked to me was to find out what was due in philosophy. and you have YET to talk to me since i dropped the class. so you can go fuck off.
Ask james and laura you say? I know more about it that you could imagine. So you shutup. You've been complaining about James spending way to much time up at umass Lowell neglecting his friends, as has chris. You simply assumed that james went up there several times a week, when that wasn't untrue. Some of us, unlike you, have a healthy balance of putting our significant others before friends, how many relationships of yours have fallen apart cuz you neglected your boyfriend to hang out with your friends way to much? I know James complained about it, as did Bill. And I stopped talking to you because you stopped talking to me and stopped inviting to me to anyways, I would keep hearing about a bowling night from kevin that I hadn't heard of. So since you couldn't seem to either remember my existence enough to invite me, or you simply didn't want me there, thus you weren't worth talking to. So get off your high fucking horse and shut up. You didn't saw in so many words that you disprove of Laura and James, but you acted like it, and so did Chris.
ok so this may be to ur dismay, but im not really taking offence to ur post, although i do have some comments to make. ur whole comment is "fucking bullshit" and u know it, otherwise u would act differently... ok maybe u havent "openly objected", but maybe thats the problem. plus, scott and james's relationship is really none of ur concern. they are both big boys who can take care of themselves. and personally, i think that jeff is probably better off not talking to u, considering how u have responded to each other in these comments. finally, the "go fuck off" part is really not neccessary, lets try to keep it rated PG. thanks.
it was my post! i should know MORE then you if it was a pity post. if it was a fucking pity post then i wouldn't have put that it wasn't. you're pretty much sitting there calling me a liar. thanks Jeff. really appreciate it. "And you don't know shit about me so stop pretending to" who are you really talking to here? me or you? cuz you don't know anything about my posts or most of my friends. so please stop trying to get in the middle and solve everything when you haven't even figured me out yet. "although you may not know that cuz you've been to busy wallowing you your self-pity loneliness to even notice" i'm very sorry Jeff that i don't have a boyfriend and i'm always happy.i'm only human. you told me that you would always be here for me when you turn around and say pretty much to shove it and be happy and stop complaining bitch. thanks. i thought you were my friend. i thought a lot of things. i thought you were better then this. but you're not. you can post whatever you want but when you start ordering other peoples LJ's around thats when i draw the fucking line. its a free country. i know exactly whats going on ok? Laura is MY best friend and i've been doing the best i can in fact i think its safe to say i know more then you when it comes to Laura, James, and Scott (who you've never even met). thanks for the stab in the back Jeff with a side of fries.
jess, i think ur missing the point. not to speak for him or anything, but i think jeffs point is that there is only so much talking about how depressed/lonely/unhappy one is before it crosses the line into pity-postness. you are one of the most unhappy people i have ever met, and jeff would not be out of line for calling u a liar about your comment "i'm always happy". and as for "your friends", they are as good as his and mine as well, and that is something u might wanna get used to, cause thats just the way it is and will be for a while. im pretty sure the both of us (jeff and I) know more than u and have known more than u for a while, but what does that really matter? jeffs not trying to solve anything, he just wanted to get everything out in the open, as opposed to talking about people behind their backs like some people prefer to do. so do urself a favor and calm down, before u have a conniption fit, if it isnt already too late.
a conniption fit? no i'm not missing the point. i'm not having a fit i'm just trying to put out what i think. just like Jeff did. and i know that we have mutual friends i wasn't even talking about you in that. i am an unhappy person but who are you guys to bring me down for it? aren't you my friends? shouldn't you be trying to make me feel better? anyway that wasn't even the point of the post. if it made you feel that way i'm sorry.
jess if i could i would make u feel better, but there is absolutely nothing that i can do that would make u better. everything is a choice, and only u can decide to be happy.
ok tenile dear. couple things. first, i know all about why jeff broke up with me. and im pretty sure that jess was the one who ended it with jeff for scott, not jeff who ended it for me. jeff and i always had something, and jess decided she would get involved cause she missed her chance and wanted another one. so i graciously stepped aside and waited til jess was bored, and then got him back cause i knew that was what both jeff and i wanted. and it wasnt easy, but we have been working really hard, and that is what having a relatiohship is all about.
2nd, he wasnt saying to put significant others before friends, or the other way around. he was noting the importance of having a good combination of the 2.
there is a humongous difference between being paranoid and caring about someone, and i dont have enough time in the day to explain it to u.
he wasnt bringing up the alcohol part jsut for u. and like he said, it is not an excuse. if u know how ur gonna react to it, then act accordingly and dont drink, or limit urself. i really dont think anyone was forcing u to drink
lastly, hes not trying to run peoples lives. for the last time LJ is not LIFE!!
"so i graciously stepped aside and waited til jess was bored, and then got him back cause i knew that was what both jeff and i wanted." i resent that. I NEVER asked Jeff to break up with you for me- NEVER. so don't treat me like i was trying to steal your boyfriend- I was happy for you two- i ENCOURAGED you two. He is the one who broke up with you for me and at the time i was confused. a few weeks later I realized who I really had feelings for and it wasn't Jeff. and I broke up with him- not because I was bored- but because i saw the light. "and jess decided she would get involved cause she missed her chance and wanted another one" i never got involved ok? Jeff came to MY house and told me he still wanted me and i said okay well go tell Quira because it's not fair. i never asked for another chance. even Jeff can back me up here. the whole Jeff thing fell right into my lap and i decided to see what i can make of the situation since i figured Scott would NEVER like me back (which my thinking is a little diffrent now) so yeah i dated Jeff. i figured out i didn't want Jeff so he went back to you- he never stopped liking you even though he told me he did like me better when we were going out. i didn't beleive him on that one. i'm very glad you made the relationship work- you guys are meant for each other not me and jeff. i'm still looking. i'm waiting for Scott. so please stop saying that stuff- it makes me sound like a ho.
"sorry to tell you that happened before him and jess went out." ok that is bullshit, ur not sorry. and it doesnt even matter, cause ur not telling me anything i didnt already know.
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2nd, he wasnt saying to put significant others before friends, or the other way around. he was noting the importance of having a good combination of the 2.
there is a humongous difference between being paranoid and caring about someone, and i dont have enough time in the day to explain it to u.
he wasnt bringing up the alcohol part jsut for u. and like he said, it is not an excuse. if u know how ur gonna react to it, then act accordingly and dont drink, or limit urself. i really dont think anyone was forcing u to drink
lastly, hes not trying to run peoples lives. for the last time LJ is not LIFE!!
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"and jess decided she would get involved cause she missed her chance and wanted another one" i never got involved ok? Jeff came to MY house and told me he still wanted me and i said okay well go tell Quira because it's not fair. i never asked for another chance. even Jeff can back me up here. the whole Jeff thing fell right into my lap and i decided to see what i can make of the situation since i figured Scott would NEVER like me back (which my thinking is a little diffrent now) so yeah i dated Jeff. i figured out i didn't want Jeff so he went back to you- he never stopped liking you even though he told me he did like me better when we were going out. i didn't beleive him on that one. i'm very glad you made the relationship work- you guys are meant for each other not me and jeff. i'm still looking. i'm waiting for Scott. so please stop saying that stuff- it makes me sound like a ho.
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Again, I told quira all this already so it really doesn't matter.
And dont' worry people that have confided in me, I won't betray that trust out of spite like some people.
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