Re: the weight debate building. (this is about eating issues, not medical conditions)

Sep 16, 2008 11:37

As someone who was groomed by her mother to have a specific body type, and ridiculed publicly when I didn't have that, as someone who was told by her father that it looked like I had a tire in my waist band, as someone that was an exercise bulimic in her late teens and was grey-faced and wan from being unhealthy, as someone who watched her best ( Read more... )

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cityphonelines September 16 2008, 19:02:41 UTC
WORD to all of this. Though my mother did the opposite because she also has food/weight issues. And in my family food is the reward. It's also the cure for boredom. It is the drug of choice in my household.

I do have a size goal (almost there!), but I've never had a weight goal because I'm tall and naturally muscular so I ALWAYS weigh more than I should. Even at my smallest and healthiest I weighed WAY more than people thought I did.

Also? I love you. A lot.

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stoney321 September 16 2008, 19:14:44 UTC
Holy shit, food being a cure for boredom. *raises hand* Yeah. I know that one INTIMATELY.

I made a point of not using words like BMI and that sort of thing, because that shit is meaningless up to a point. (Plus, the only way to DO it is i water, not that stupid pinch test.) And any pic I've ever seen of you, I see a beee-you-tee-ful girl. I love that you're tall and muscular. (Isn't that what comic book chicks are? GLamazons? *G*)

I weigh more than I look, too. But I wouldn't trade my muscles for slim shit any day, that's fo sho.

I love YOU a lot, too. You are good people, Vin. *hugs you tiiiiight*

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jupiterinmo September 16 2008, 19:13:48 UTC
Very well said.... bravo!

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stoney321 September 16 2008, 19:17:29 UTC
*takes a bow*
*scrubs the tile while I'm down there*

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slasheuse September 16 2008, 19:23:00 UTC
Bravo, bravo!

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stoney321 September 16 2008, 19:31:59 UTC
And well done to you for your running program!

...are the food issues there the same as they are here? I ask because there's such a car culture here, and everything is so far from each other, it's not like you can stroll down the road and hit the grocers, etc.

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slasheuse September 16 2008, 23:43:38 UTC
Pssht. Is currently more exercise bike/being on my feet & running up/down stairs programme but MY GOD will I be doing a lot of walking as soon as term starts again ( ... )

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stoney321 September 17 2008, 00:03:32 UTC
hahahaha on our snack food situation being better. You mean you don't like canned(tinned) spotted dick? ooooh, curry. I think that's in the mix for dinner tomorrow now that you've reminded me.

I think generally speaking we Western Worlders are getting larger because of lots of factors, but the food is the big one. My dad growing up on a farm ate nothing but fresh veggies and fruit, wheat from their fields, cows from the barn. I'm talking steak every night. But they were all whip thin from working outside all the time. Everything was homemade/grown, there weren't preservatives high fructose corn syrup, etc. in every damn thing.

Personally I think the HFCS is the main culprit.

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kseenaa September 16 2008, 20:15:18 UTC
Hear, hear!

I have discoverd an amazing diet! That works. For me. O.o And according to what "everyone" knows, it shouldn't. :-P Weird, uh? I eat LowCarbHighFat. Meaning, I eat fat food, but natural fats. And no carbohydrates. And I have never felt this good in my entire life! I lost 11 kilos from that! Less weight, I have now started exercising... Life is weird. :-D But now I am starting to love my body! Progress!

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stoney321 September 16 2008, 20:30:44 UTC
The most important part of your comment (imo) is "I am starting to love my body" YAY FOR YOU!

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kseenaa September 16 2008, 23:14:00 UTC
Well, considering I have been badly, REALLY badly teased, mobbed and... generally had a sucky time my entire time in school... since everyone thought I was fat. (I am 6feet tall, and grew fast as a kid.) So yeah. I'd definitly say PROGRESS! :-D

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dovil September 16 2008, 21:16:42 UTC
HEY! I'm glad you didn't die from the storm, it would have made New York that much more of a downer if I had to drag a corpse around with me ( ... )

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stoney321 September 16 2008, 21:25:01 UTC
HEY!!!! I'm seeing your face in a matter of HOURS, whoooooo!

And bwah ha ha - you know we're going to eat decadent foods while we're there, but we'll make up for it with the thousands of miles we'll walk. Not to anywhere in particular, I just want to see how long you can go. Like a mule with better hair!

Processed foods is key = that fake stuff just isn't meant to be in our bodies. Our bodies certainly weren't designed for them!

I'm meeting you at the hotel on Thursday, yes? I'll be there around 2. Once I check in, if you're not there, I'll stow my stuff in our room and hang out in the lobby to wait for you. Just look for the dork in green glasses.

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dovil September 16 2008, 22:06:15 UTC
We're around the corner from a chocolate and wine bar for gods sake, I think Road Trip Gluttony might have to be the official slogan with a hunk of lard as the mascot.

And like a mule with a mullet don't you mean? I don't make eye contact with other people and stick to dark corners these days.

Oh, yay I say! Thursday, 2pm hotel lobby! I'll be there with bells on, you'll have green glasses, there will be a mullet scurrying around a darkened corner - can't wait! (Computer just said it was Wednesday today and I had a little moment of terror until I checked the newspaper - doh!).

Met up with Di and two other ljers on Saturday and had a blast - you were mentioned in glowing terms as well. By Di of course, I just rolled my eyes a lot and drank more.

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stoney321 September 16 2008, 23:49:54 UTC
Aww, how much fun! I can't wait to hear about all the stuff you've been up to. The drugs you've run, the hobos you've killed... God Bless America! :D

Mullet, scurrying, check. EEEEEE!

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