Something that really bothers me is the constant, low-level sexism and objectification that goes on daily everywhere, and how since it's not like you can police people's thoughts, you are treated as if you're over-reacting if you find it offensive and upsetting
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I just ignore it most of the time and try to do my best to be in a position where I wouldn't be handicapped by it (I mean professionally). But the mere the fact that I have to make a special effort JUST because I'm a woman? Yeah.
Sadly, there's not a lot you can do. You can talk about it with your girlfriends and rant to your (luckily) nice boyfriend, but there's nothing you can do to actually make a difference. I believe only time will really change the way men think. After all, not so long ago, women weren't even allowed to vote. Hopefully, in the foreseeable future, we'll finally be men's equals.
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I hope you're right on this one, but I'm not optimistic! There's been so many positive changes for women, but in terms of objectification etc, I think the rise in Raunch Culture of recent years has made certain issues a lot worse. Magazines with half naked women aren't regulated to the top shelf anymore and loads of young women's greatest ambition is to get their picture in one of them. On that front, men's attitudes aren't being challenged, they're actually being reinforced, and often by women themselves depressingly.
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This IS a big issue and you can't justify it by saying 'just lads'. Even if they were drunk in a pub, it's inexcusable. If any of my male friend acted like this I'd hit them. Hard. I'd like to think none of them would. (I was very proud to hear a male friend recently talk about a political issue then go 'But from a feminist standpoint..' <3)
Short summary: you are right, they are misogynistic bastards.
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It's depressing that this is so common, and so many people have a similar story to tell. I think as tonight_we_fly has said below, where we can try and counteract this kind of attitude is making sure that we don't let people we know get away with it when they behave this way.
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I don't think they'd know what a real woman was if one sat on them.
It's not uncommon at all what they were saying, but pleeeease on a packed train? Have some manners.
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Ah the good old twin combo of casual sexism *and* homophobia! God, some people are just such CRETINS.
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I think the American military have a name for this choice of sexism or homophobia: "Don't ask, don't tell."
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