My mom keeps insisting that I'm "entitled" to some of that refund, but I am so fucking sick of all this yours/mine financial bullshit, I just want it to be over.
I sent an email to my fucking ex-husband to ask if he'll go down to the union insurance office to sign my appeal, and I'm really, really hoping he'll get back to me because it'll cost me $4,000 and he hasn't answered my last 2 emails about other important divorce matters.