When you love someone but it goes to waste...

[starry_night_53]

Not in the greatest mood. not in a good mood at all actually.

Tom is dating Ashley. I know, I know. I am a total loser. there are wars and suffering in the world and all i can think about are my stupid insignificant teen problems. well, i care about all the other stuff to. in fact, im driving myself insane worrying about it all.

but i cant help it

Comments

[missymeggins]

Jodz nothing is petty if it means something to you. Yes there are wars going on and other things in the world but just because you're hurt by smething less dramatic than that doesn't mean it doesn't still matter. For what it's worth I'm really sorry. It hurts when someone you care about doesn't feel the same about you. Even if you knew it was coming, it still hurts. *huggles* I'm here if you want to talk.

I hope you don't mind my asking, but your answer to number 3. I didn't know your mother was dead. Did she die before you were born? I'm sorry if I seem rude by asking...

[missymeggins]

P.S if you want some good music to get you through the sadness check out my PJ Harvey post, particularly: This Mess We're In, The Dancer and A Place Called Home. They're brilliant songs.

[starry_night_53]

*hugs back* thankyou so much meg. just your words make me feel better. ♥ ♥ ♥

i dont mind you asking at all. my mother died when I was a year and a half. she had skin cancer. most people dont know, because... well, i just dont talk about it much. you are not rude at all hun.

thanks again for everything. xoxo

(and thanks for the song posts- Im on a bit of a download rampage at the moment, so I'm going to go give them a listent to!)

[missymeggins]

You're welcome sweets. I'm glad I can help a little. *hugs*

I'm sorry to hear about your mum. That's so sad.

Hope you enjoy some of the music!

[cathiexx]

Jods! You are not stupid, or an idiot -- far from it darling. You fell for someone. Of couse it's going to hurt when you find out that they don't feel the same. That's a painful thing. So don't belittle yourself or tell yourself that you shouldn't feel this way; it's something we ALL go through.

Just remember that you are a smart, gorgeous girl. And if Tom can't see that, then he's not worth your time anyway. One day, you will make a boy exceptionally happy, and he will be extremely lucky to have you. *cuddles*

And I think wanting to have children is really brave and selfless. I'm still unsure if I ever want to have kids; I like babies and children and I think it would be neat to have one of my own, but I'm so afraid about RAISING kids and having to be so selfless and giving up so much of myself for them. I don't know if I can do that. So I think that's a wonderful thing for you to want to do.

♥

[starry_night_53]

oh hun. thankyou so much. you dont even understand how much i appreciate your words. they help so much. i heart you.

and well... i dont know, having kids has just always been something i want to do. but now, the only thing that really scares me is having kids grow up in a world like this one. i guess the most important thing is just shutting out all that bad stuff.

you are wonderful cath. thanks so much. xoxo

[rainsquall]

AWWWWWWWWWW. THAT SUCKS.

*huuuuuug*

♥

[starry_night_53]

thanks hun. 'preciate it. ♥

Have a hug!!

[xprincesskatyx]

Hey Hunni!!
Awww this thing with this guy will get better I promise, do you know why? Its because you are gonna meet someone who is totally fantastic and better than this other guy your thinking about and you know why?? because he has you!! :) keep smiling sweetie!! Hugs!!
Interview me!!!!!!!

Re: Have a hug!!

[starry_night_53]

aww thankyou so much! i wuv you, you are always there to cheer me up hunny bunch! xoxo

and...INTERVIEW!:
1. what was your favourite ever pet?
2. Who would you most like to meet in the world (dead or alive)
3. Where would you most like to go in the entire world, can be fictional, ancient, etc. ?
4. What is your favourite scent?
5. If you won the lotto right now, what would you buy first?

Re: Have a hug!!

[xprincesskatyx]

Here goes....
1. My one and only pet was my Hamster Hammie!!
2. Audrey Hepburn...an amazing actress and an inspirational woman!
3. I would love to live and work in New York...I totally want to live the American dream......But hey I would also like to go to Hogworts to study magic and date Harry Potter lol
4. Obsession and Gucci Envy!
5. A black BMW convertible!!!!!!!
Mwah!! xXx

Re: Have a hug!!

[starry_night_53]

1. that is tooo cute!
2. *sigh* what a good one. I adore old movies.
3. OMGNOWAY! ME TOO! that is my absolute dream (New York, I mean... tho the Harry one doesnt sound too bad at all...) . creepy, eh?
xoxo

[smokey_eyeliner]

Aww, I'm sorry, sweetie, that sucks. *hug huggles* Don't worry about feeling self-centered - it's important to you. That's all that matters, and you should be allowed to feel sorry for yourself without worrying about others. You're every bit as important as anyone else.

Plus, try and take solace in the fact that it's a young relationship and it'll probably be over in a few months, if anything. Believe me, that's usually how these things go. ♥

INTERVIEW ME! =]

[starry_night_53]

thankyou so much sweets. you have no idea how much it means to me ♥

interview:
1. What is your clearest ever memory?
2. What is your favourite movie?
3. where do you imagine you will be in 10 years?
4. what song do you listen to when you are sad?
5. where is your favourite place in the world?