It has been a long time since I updated this. Much has happened. I have moved permanently to toronto; grounded myself here, I have a job, I am finishing my last credits here, I've applied to university again...I know I will get in
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I really am sorry how we both ended up hurting each other's feelings in this. When it comes down to it, it's probably because we tried being friends too quickly. That's probably not possible at this point in our lives. If you want we can still try and work out the things that were bothering you, or we could just block each other from each other's lives for at least a couple months.
yeah It definitely has something to do with that. However even if we block each other out from our lives for a bit, we need to have this resolved.
The hurting of the feelings is still in its process...and can be stopped quite easily. Gint I really like you and think you are a good guy, I know I hurt you, but that is then and this is now ,the past is in the past. Nothing you are doing will change that I hurt you, but will only take away from your character and hurt you even more. Even if it is how you claim, to be totally unrelated, it is still not respecting me, my feelings and the way my life is structured. Its throwing wolves into a field of sheep. This is essentially your test to your words, do you really care about the way things have been going well in my life, my new friends, my home, my job and dreams? Then this is your time to show it.
I really need my feelings respected here. As a human being, and as a friend.
Well this is going to seem surprising, but I'm going to have to agree with you. Two wrongs don't really make a right, and whether or not what I did was intentional or not, I can see how it hurts. I'm still hurting too. Not because of anything you did recently, but because now that we're not together anymore, people have been telling me things. In the end, it doesn't matter if what people told me are true or not, it still hurts to hear it. I'm done disrespecting you, and you're done with it for me. We can put this behind us, because neither of us is a victim anymore; we're both just as guilty for what we did. It will take us a while to return to a comfortable friendship, but we can both work towards it. Us talking like this peacefully is a good sign for one. Be careful with me though, at times I may feel put down. At the hop I felt like you were telling me I was rifraf when you told me you couldn't stop to talk because you had important people to talk to at the front of the lineWe still have one more issue to deal with, and we both
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Not everything is but many things are really just so fake.
Life really is a learning experience and a lot of time the only way to learn some of the lessons that we need is the hard way.
Sure, I was able to stay away from a lot of the superficial world the people lead but still learned other lessons by the experiences. I am sure many things that were the only warn to learn them. I truly feel that the expression in one ear and out the other applies to things we do not want to hear.
Sure, it is not always the people we hang out with that can cause the problems but they do help in some respects.
Yes, people are people in all walks in life. It is so very hard to figure out the good with the bad, and sometimes, evil does drive a mini van
I have very glad to hear your back in school and applied for a few universities. I wish you best of luck to you with that.
You didn't stay THAT far away from the superficial world ;)
Most often it is the people we hang out with that cause the problems. One must surround themself with people who have a positive impact on one's life. Life is too short to dwell on drama.
and i was beginning to fear that inhumanity as you put it was the staple of our humanity. Nice to know it isn't true. Thanks for reminding me that there are still real, thinking, living people out there, making sense.
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When it comes down to it, it's probably because we tried being friends too quickly. That's probably not possible at this point in our lives.
If you want we can still try and work out the things that were bothering you, or we could just block each other from each other's lives for at least a couple months.
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However even if we block each other out from our lives for a bit, we need to have this resolved.
The hurting of the feelings is still in its process...and can be stopped quite easily.
Gint I really like you and think you are a good guy, I know I hurt you, but that is then and this is now ,the past is in the past. Nothing you are doing will change that I hurt you, but will only take away from your character and hurt you even more.
Even if it is how you claim, to be totally unrelated, it is still not respecting me, my feelings and the way my life is structured. Its throwing wolves into a field of sheep.
This is essentially your test to your words,
do you really care about the way things have been going well in my life, my new friends, my home, my job and dreams? Then this is your time to show it.
I really need my feelings respected here. As a human being, and as a friend.
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Two wrongs don't really make a right, and whether or not what I did was intentional or not, I can see how it hurts.
I'm still hurting too. Not because of anything you did recently, but because now that we're not together anymore, people have been telling me things. In the end, it doesn't matter if what people told me are true or not, it still hurts to hear it.
I'm done disrespecting you, and you're done with it for me. We can put this behind us, because neither of us is a victim anymore; we're both just as guilty for what we did.
It will take us a while to return to a comfortable friendship, but we can both work towards it. Us talking like this peacefully is a good sign for one. Be careful with me though, at times I may feel put down. At the hop I felt like you were telling me I was rifraf when you told me you couldn't stop to talk because you had important people to talk to at the front of the lineWe still have one more issue to deal with, and we both ( ... )
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Not everything is but many things are really just so fake.
Life really is a learning experience and a lot of time the only way to learn some of the lessons that we need is the hard way.
Sure, I was able to stay away from a lot of the superficial world the people lead but still learned other lessons by the experiences. I am sure many things that were the only warn to learn them. I truly feel that the expression in one ear and out the other applies to things we do not want to hear.
Sure, it is not always the people we hang out with that can cause the problems but they do help in some respects.
Yes, people are people in all walks in life. It is so very hard to figure out the good with the bad, and sometimes, evil does drive a mini van
I have very glad to hear your back in school and applied for a few universities. I wish you best of luck to you with that.
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You didn't stay THAT far away from the superficial world ;)
Most often it is the people we hang out with that cause the problems. One must surround themself with people who have a positive impact on one's life. Life is too short to dwell on drama.
~ Tchau
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