How to Permanently Have Your Birthday Ruined

[speedyhobbit]

So. In addition to waking to the news that the dad of twins I've been friends with since I was 9 had passed away on my birthday, I just found out a former close friend from college died

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[shirebound]

Oh Cher, I'm so sorry to hear that these events happened on a day that should have been joyful and special for you. *tight hugs*

[speedyhobbit]

*returns the hugs, three months later* Thank you for the words of comfort. Not sure how I can ever celebrate my birthday again...

[periantari]

i'm so sorry to hear about this on your birthday! what an awful way to spend it by mourning. Many condolences to you and your loved ones. :( message me if you need to vent or anything. So sorry for the losses. :( :huggles tight:

[speedyhobbit]

thank you so much... *returns all of the huggles* There's still no words to describe that kind of birthday. Turning 36 is going to be hard... and not even for the "eeek I'm now closer to 40 than 30" reasons

[grey_wonderer]

I’m so sorry to hear this. Sad news on a special day does tend to stay with person.

[speedyhobbit]

Yeah.... one death alone would've been more than enough, and this was two deaths for separate reasons...

[lauren]

I'm so sorry. :(