"..i mean i forgot he's my dad and that he would see it as very disrespectful for his daughter to call him a dumbass" Since when does he deserve your respect anyway?
I agree...and I really really dont think you should have apologized. It takes more than DNA for someone to be your dad or for that matter the respect a dad deserves. If he treats you that way he doesnt deserve your respect. I think you were totally right for saying what you did. And blatant ignorant racism bothers me sooooo much!
ARGH. It sounds just like my dad! he'll say the GROSSEST things. Like my dad'll call me fat or "fluffy" and point out every imperfection I might have (in case I haven't noticed). He'll also say things that aren't completely true but he'll think is funny, like, my dad once said I broke the tub in our bathroom (I did, it was a clawfoot that wasn't bolted down properly). HE said I broke it having sex w/ my boyfriend in the shower! Please remember I haven't lived w/ my dad since high school so I would have been in high school. I actually broke it just sitting on the side of the tub shaving my legs. I think he said all this in front of a relative or something
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thanks for all the support ladies..and basically i apologized bc i didnt really mean to crush him with those words..they just spilled from my mouth..and then i instantly felt bad..also bc i didnt want to be the one to blame for ruining a family function..not bc he's not a dumbass..lol I LOVE YOU GUYS!!
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Since when does he deserve your respect anyway?
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