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Mar 20, 2011 20:14

I don't know how to be a good friend. I think I should be doing something to make her better, but I just can't and I know that's terrible of me. It's not that I've given up, it's just that it's not within my means to do anything to make her life better. It kills me. All I can do is tell her how much I love her and how great she is, but that ( Read more... )

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sarar March 21 2011, 11:10:44 UTC
It sounds like you REALLY care, not that you don't care at all!

It's tough to deal with someone who is in a shitty situation, especially when you don't feel great yourself. There's not much you can do unless they ask for your help. Even then, you can only do so much. You have to take care of yourself and they have to take care of themselves. You can't be their caretaker. That's not your job and it only breeds resentment.

I don't know anything about the situation, except what you've just said, but I think all you can do is talk to her and let her know you care and if she needs anything, to ask you and you'll do your best.

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sourgrapes March 22 2011, 02:29:20 UTC
Thank you.

Not to sound all cheesy or anything, but I'm thankful for your replies. This is shit I just keep inside all the time, so it's nice to get it out there.

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sarar March 22 2011, 08:10:52 UTC
I'm glad it's not weird that I'm replying to all your posts, now that you're suddenly posting again. :)

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