I have been very neutral about this. Mostly because I have relationships with people involved on all sides. And the last thing I want to do is hurt any of them
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I know what you want to try to say here, and I honestly don't care about the comm, I'm staying away from it, and let the ones who are wanted there have their fun, but something like this: http://pics.livejournal.com/icequeen3101/pic/000z34fz
If you check the profile now, it was taken away. Capping it for posterity was a great idea, but now that people have calmed down after feeling quite pissed off by some tweets, everything is back to its non-agressive way. I get what you're saying but I think that bringing up again the night's excess is just asking for teh drama to go on. This is an appeasing post, not a drama starter.
It's not for the drama to go on, but it's to show that they(you?) aren't helping to avoid the drama. Be the better person, and don't pull shit like this!
and jsyk, I wouldn't even know about any tweets, because I don't have twitter.
I didn't accuse you of starting the drama, just said that if we wanted to go back to a statu quo, it wasn't really helping. 'Cause this was this post purpose, when things were being said and done, Ana tried to explain that oceanaldi was not a bad community, she was trying to appease the situation. My point was: it was deleted, wasn't it? If we wanted things to keep on being awful and all warlike, it would have stayed up, wouldn't it? You're keeping a screencap to remind us of our past mistakes, or to prove a point, okay, but it's time to move on. I understand that at best you forgive, but you never forget, and this is not what we're asking. I can't speak for my community, but we're trying to move past this I think.
Now, a war/drama isn't started by only one person. It takes two to fight, the same as tango. We take our responsabilities. We hope the other party will do too.
I wish we could all get along like we used to in middle school... I wish I could bake a cake filled with rainbows and smiles and everyone would eat and be happy This. So much.
Ok,so I'm trying to stay neutral because I'm friends with basically almost everyone involved and I'd rather stay that way...And I also have like no frackin' idea what happened and why there is so much drama now :/
Anyway,I admit that I felt a bit hurt when I stumbled about your community. I didn't know what it was about and felt left out and was wondering why I and a lot of other people weren't invited. Now that I read your post I understand that it was all completely harmless and I'm ok with it. However,I agree with Steph and Angie here that people could easily get a wrong impression and that things got a bit ugly because of that (again,I have no idea what happened. Appearantly there's a lot more about it but as I said above,I'm Switzerland so I think I don't even wanna know what exactly the problem is).
That's why I said I'm neutral. I hate if I have to 'decide' between two people (or in this case even more). I can totally understand both sides here and don't want to lose friends over something that isn't worth fighting for :(
That's why I said I'm neutral. I hate if I have to 'decide' between two people (or in this case even more). I can totally understand both sides here and don't want to lose friends over something that isn't worth fighting for :( My thoughts exactly, Nadine. It's really not worth fighting about at all. Not even a little. See, this is why you are so awesome :)
LOVE YOU. This is perfect. IDG what the big fuss is. I guess before they didn't realize that we all chatted all the time, and now that it's in a comm, it's a huge frickin deal. whatevs.
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I'm staying away from it, and let the ones who are wanted there have their fun, but something like this:
http://pics.livejournal.com/icequeen3101/pic/000z34fz
isn't exactly helping your cause.
Just saying.
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I get what you're saying but I think that bringing up again the night's excess is just asking for teh drama to go on. This is an appeasing post, not a drama starter.
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Be the better person, and don't pull shit like this!
and jsyk, I wouldn't even know about any tweets, because I don't have twitter.
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My point was: it was deleted, wasn't it? If we wanted things to keep on being awful and all warlike, it would have stayed up, wouldn't it? You're keeping a screencap to remind us of our past mistakes, or to prove a point, okay, but it's time to move on. I understand that at best you forgive, but you never forget, and this is not what we're asking. I can't speak for my community, but we're trying to move past this I think.
Now, a war/drama isn't started by only one person. It takes two to fight, the same as tango. We take our responsabilities. We hope the other party will do too.
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This. So much.
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Anyway,I admit that I felt a bit hurt when I stumbled about your community. I didn't know what it was about and felt left out and was wondering why I and a lot of other people weren't invited. Now that I read your post I understand that it was all completely harmless and I'm ok with it. However,I agree with Steph and Angie here that people could easily get a wrong impression and that things got a bit ugly because of that (again,I have no idea what happened. Appearantly there's a lot more about it but as I said above,I'm Switzerland so I think I don't even wanna know what exactly the problem is).
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I would be really really sad if something happened to our friendship ♥
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That's why I said I'm neutral. I hate if I have to 'decide' between two people (or in this case even more). I can totally understand both sides here and don't want to lose friends over something that isn't worth fighting for :(
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My thoughts exactly, Nadine. It's really not worth fighting about at all. Not even a little. See, this is why you are so awesome :)
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