I’m all moved into Solon’s condo, and almost everything is now unpacked and put away. The cats are adjusting kind of well. The move had it’s problems, but everything ended up well all because I had a lot of people come and help out. Much thanks to Susan, Dan, John, Tricia and Tracer.

I have an interview down town next week, wish me luck and send ( Read more... )

Saturday night of Midwinter (which I will post of later) a friend did my hair, and during which he asked if he could ask what happened between Jon and I. I said he could and told him and then said I was really tired of all the second hand drama this was causing. He said he wasn't judging him. Don't get me wrong, I've called Jon an asshat over the ( Read more... )

I drove up to Kenosha last night, and made it in under an hour. I actually got there before Will had gotten off work, so I went to the site and waited for him and then we went a got dinner. We went to Ron’s Place, which had great food and Will teased me a little bit about some stuff but then on the way back to the site “Baby its cold outside” was ( Read more... )

For the first time in a while I had a good night’s sleep; however, since I have not been sleeping well lately when it was time to get up I didn’t want to and spent the day being tired as hell.  None the less, I was determined to have a good day ( Read more... )

Last night was spent at mom's with her, Dana, Brandon, Theresa and my nieces. It was nice and a bonus was seeing my cousin Cody, who is the Marines and was visiting. I had planned on staying, but ended up coming home. I curled on the couch with the cats for a while and then went to bed.

Today I didn't really sleep in, apparently Bug was having none ( Read more... )

I finished all my gift wrapping last night, I have not made the holiday cookies yet, so maybe that will be this weekend. Tomorrow I head to my moms to spend it with her, my step-dad, my brother and his family and I cannot wait! I’ll spend the night there, unless I really miss the cats and then head to my Aunt Rita’s on Christmas day unless the ( Read more... )

Last night the_matras  and I talked. He confirmed everything loopygirl and I had told the other and then later she I confirmed things. We wanted to make sure the lies had stopped.

I do feel like I finally have the truth and see the entire picture. I know the last of my anger is leaving me, but the hurt will be there for a while. I told the_matras that outside of things with my ( Read more... )

 I talked with the_matras  today and with loopygirl and I don't think I could have really cleaned the wounds with out her. Did I get answers, yes. Were they the ones I wanted, no, but you never get the answers you want when your real life becomes a horrid soap opera. It's late and I'm tired, I might write more later when I get sleep.

This past week and weekend has been filled with much drama and pain; however, something important did happen outside of all this ( Read more... )

loopygirl  and I have been talking/texting and emailing much of this weekend. While our honesty with the other has come with a great deal of hurt and at a high price I am very grateful for it. We both have a lot to think about and come to terms with, and none of it will be easy. I know her and the_matras talked last night and that he confirmed to her much of what I ( Read more... )