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[smokedamage]

enneagram test. move along.

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[purfektlyflawd]

I never really viewed you as that.

I viewed you as friendly to those you know and like, standing up for what you believe, openly cold when you dislike someone, never proving anything to anyone.

Okay, so I barely know you. I'm probably way off the mark, but that's my first impression of you.

[smokedamage]

i'd say you're not far off, but there's this little simpering "i want to be liked" undercurrent that i know is there, but i keep stepping on so it doesn't come out.

that's a good ealry reading though

cheers

[purfektlyflawd]

I think most of us have that little "I want to be liked."

I have one -- only it's "I want to be loved, adored, cherished, etc."
The easiest way to make someone want you is to make yourself not want them. As soon as they view you as out of reach, or unbefriendable, they just have to be your friend. Or they become really jealous of you.

Now I sound really conceited. It's not meant like that.

I think I should just shut up right now...

[smokedamage]

tried that. doesn't work for me, i only get hated, not too many seem to try to bridge the gap - perhaps i'm too good at it :)

don't worry about being conceited...